similar situation, 23 pregnant & alone

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Registered: 03-01-2010
similar situation, 23 pregnant & alone
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Mon, 03-01-2010 - 11:10pm

Well I can honestly say I never thought I'd be in this situation..but I am sure thats what we're all sayin.

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Registered: 02-24-2010
Tue, 03-02-2010 - 2:00am
I know EXACTLY how you feel. I look at how things ended with my baby's father and we have no contact, he changed his number and I am gonna be doing it all on my own. I sit and cry when I think of how it "used" to be with us. But its been 5 weeks and the hurt is still there but the reality of what gift I have infront of me is worth every tear. Know that you aren't alone and no matter what at some point it won't seem so sad. Right now I'm sure it tears you up, but the only motivation I have had is knowing that my baby is going to be all mine. I won't ever have to deal with someone elses ideals or beliefs on parenting and without the dad in the picture it leaves room for someone special to come into my life and love my baby like I do. Keep your head up
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Registered: 03-17-2010
Wed, 03-17-2010 - 1:56pm

Hi, I am 15 weeks pregnant and found out last week that my love, the father of my baby was cheating on me and he is back on heavy drugs. I honestly never want to see him again. How could anyone do what he did and be forgiven? Us women should have enough respect for ourselves and our babies to just move on no matter how painful it is. And I know how much it hurts and you betcha i still cry but then I think I am better off because I want my baby to have a good role model even if it's just me. Everywhere I go I see a daddy holding his baby and yes, it hurts, but now I think sure they look happy but what if he cheats on his baby momma and she don't even know it carrying on all happy. Sure I have trust issues now but that too will heal with time. At least we know the truth about who we are dealing with. Liars and cheaters, not daddy material. I cried to my momma and said now my baby doesn't have a daddy! My mom looked at me and said any fool can make