why is it so hard to move on???

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Registered: 02-23-2011
why is it so hard to move on???
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Wed, 02-23-2011 - 10:13pm
I'm 27 pregnant with my first child. My daughters father and I hv been off and on for 6 yrs. He had a child when we met that he hid from me..and he had one thru tha course of our break up. Now that I'm 7 months pregnant he's pulling away and honestly I want him to go in my head..its my Damn heart that will not cooperate..lol. I jus wanna kno is it always this hard to jus move on????
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Thu, 02-24-2011 - 10:58am

I think so, you are cutting someone you deeply cared about out of your life and also losing the hopes you had for him along with it.

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Registered: 02-23-2011
Thu, 02-24-2011 - 7:22pm
I'm going on 7 months. I'm jus starting to get excited tho. At first I was so stressed because I so did not want a baby by him...I kno people will say well why sleep with him...it finally bcame completely physical with him. Then surprise surprise
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Registered: 02-26-2011
Sat, 02-26-2011 - 3:03pm
I have a very similar story to yours. I'm 27 as well and pregnant with my first baby. I'm 18 weeks pregnant now. My baby's father and I broke up a week after we found out that I was pregnant. At first I figured our nerves are getting the best of us, but even after we tried to be civil, we always end up arguing. He's not supportive of this pregnancy, although we would say otherwise. He thinks that I talk about being pregnant too often, which I don't. At least not to him, because I know that he's not interested. I need to put my baby first, and I'm trying so hard, but I still miss him. I want a family, but that's just my dream....not his.
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Registered: 02-23-2011
Sat, 02-26-2011 - 9:50pm
Wow @ 1 our stories are similar. I actually say very little about the baby to him. I jus don't evn want to involve him in it. He brings everything up and I jus try to gv quick answers so he can drop it. I would love to hv a family situation but its jus not in the cards with him..it hurts a lot sm days way more then others but I'm tryin really hard to out tha baby first jus like u said.