Already freaking out.......

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Registered: 12-22-2009
Already freaking out.......
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Tue, 03-22-2011 - 6:57am

My next appt is on the 29t I get my anatomy scan done that day too. I'm just soooo scared. I keep thinking what if something is wrong with 1 or both of the babies? I've felt some movement but not a ton yet-it comes and goes in spurts. We heard the HB's at my last appt but I still just feel overly paranoid. Is it normal to feel this way?

I don't think its helping matters any that DH and I are not getting along to well these days and that is just adding to the stress for me. Because whenever I try to talk to him, he just blows me off.

Is it normal to feel this way?

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Tue, 03-22-2011 - 11:17am
(((huge hugs)))

Totally, 100% normal. I'm sorry you're stressing though. Pregnancy can sometimes stress even the best of relationships, I hope things ease up soon.
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Tue, 03-22-2011 - 2:01pm
Sorry for the worry but yes its normal, at least for me.
Ive had 3 miscarriages so its prpbably worse than most.
I didnt have a ton of movement b4 anat scan either. I still really don't or it comes in spurts. They def. stick to the quite while in motion rule & are more active at nite. My DD was not like that.
That being said I only get big movements maybe a few times a week & its usually just a kick I can feel outside, otherwise its tiny kicks.
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Registered: 02-11-2009
Tue, 03-22-2011 - 5:44pm

Yah, that sounds about right, unfortunately. I'm prone to worrying about things I can't control, but have found I'm pretty normal around here.

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Tue, 03-22-2011 - 8:46pm

LOL-I just realized I asked the same question twice in my post oops!!!! Um-but no-I don't know about the placenta question. When they did my first u/s it was just a dating one. They really didn't tell me anything except the hb's and that there were 2. I'm just trying really hard to stay calm and relaxed. Oh and patient :-)

Thanks ladies!

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