Gender reveal?

We found out. At 12 weeks we were told two boys, at 14 weeks we were told 2 boys, but in my heart I just felt one was a girl, even though I was expecting to be told 2 boys at our 17 week ultrasound. Sure enough, one ended up being a girl! So now we know we have fraternal twins, and are expecting a second son and our first daughter! It made my mom happy because she is having a hard time with this pregnancy (she does not think people should be having kids because she hated being a mom and only sees it as a negative) but once she heard our little girl was going to be sharing her name she got excited. My son is named for my dad (my parents are divorced) and our son currently in the womb is named for my husband. :)

I also have a hard time feeling connected to the babies while pregnant, so having a name and gender helps me to imagine who they will be and bond with them.

I wanted to do something cute...like a cake with pink or blue in the middle for us to cut into. But when we found out there were 3 of them, my impatience got the best of me and I couldn't wait to do all that. We were also in the process of moving the week after we had all 3 sexes confirmed so any fun ideas I had were pushed aside. We had our boy confirmed at 15w and the girls at 17w. DH was extremely anxious to know as soon as it was possible...I was too, but could have waited it out. If we were having "only" one then I may have wanted to wait, but planning for 3 made me just have to know. Plus, I was able to secure their names and make sure nobody else in my family took them. lol