S-E-X issues..

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Registered: 09-21-2009
S-E-X issues..
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Sun, 02-28-2010 - 4:06pm

Hey, is there anyone out there, really up for it and ready for SEX, but your partner has no interest what so ever? If not, great for you, please dont rub your amazing sex life in my face :-)

But, if you are up for it, and noticed your partner em.. just isn't doesn't that just suck? I've never been a tiny girl, so i doubt it's the weight gain, but for some reason we are at a standstill. I know he is worried with many things coming up, plus we have a very active 2 year old, BUT i am not making excuses for him.

I NEED to feel pretty and sexy and special and wanted, and although we've never been the most active couple in the world, i'd say this new dry spell is just plain pissing me off.

Sorry to vent.. but damn! A girl has needs! :-)

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Sun, 02-28-2010 - 6:37pm

I'm sorry your DH is holding out on you that really sucks! I have been in your shoes many times. We were doing fine in this department until we found out it was twins then the well just dried right up.. He is afraid of what might happen and I will admit I am too.. I hope a good talking to your DH will shed some light on it and get things moving again! Besides if he doesn't hurry it will be another year before you will have the time or energy to LOL :)

Hugs,

Rebecca

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Sun, 02-28-2010 - 7:43pm

Actually it's me with the "issues" and not my honey...

 
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Mon, 03-01-2010 - 6:36am

I hear ya!

Kate


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Tue, 03-02-2010 - 1:02am

I know! My DH and I were going strong until a few weeks ago. I think once my belly reached its ultra-rotund stage, for him there was no ignoring this neon light over my head that says, "TWO PEOPLE LIVE IN HER BODY NOW!!!!" Even though these are babies 4 & 5 for us, he is STILL freaked that I'm constantly housing two of his children. I don't think he is turned off by my body per se... just more like he can't get past the mental block. Luckily, my 2nd trimester sex drive tapered off at

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Tue, 03-02-2010 - 4:04am

Thanks for the support. Yeah, i guess it's quite common, but the first trimester we abstained because it was IVF and we wanted to be 'extra' careful, so that was 12 weeks of hell (at least for me) picked up a bit and now it's gone.. but I guess it's life.

Glad to hear you are suffering with me.. well, not glad, but happy to hear there are others like us out there :-) take care

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