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|Sat, 07-11-2009 - 6:38pm|
I'm very confused and am afraid I truly don't know what to do!
We are married 30-somethings and have two children; 11 & 8. When we had our second child we bought a house that we shouldn't have and now we're stuck in it (one of those ARM situations...in which we truly had no clue what that meant...hindsight is 20/20). With that we accrued some debt and now I'm trying to manage it through an agency. Hubby is in school to get his bachelor's and will graduate next May.
His reasoning to not continue this pg is due to our financial situation (which is not dire, but not great either), our busy family situation (both our kids are involved in two different sports...I coach three nights per week and he works evenings), this is his last year of college, and we have hopes/dreams of buying a new house when he is done in a year (after we fix the hunk of junk we live in now)! He feels that the cost of a child will keep us in this house and neither of us wants that. It's a small three-bedroom and we'd have to combine our two eldest to make it work!
I on the other hand, feel that this "being" is a part of the two of us and if this was meant to be, then it was meant to be. That we will figure it all out, as we always do. But I'm afraid he'll resent me for keeping this pg. When I told him that, he said he doesn't want me resenting him for making a decision based off of his thoughts.
I've tried looking at the information to terminate, but I just can't. I believe things will be fine, but will they?