new w/ question

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Registered: 07-21-2009
new w/ question
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Tue, 07-21-2009 - 9:07am

I did post this to another board...just trying to get as much advice as possible...



Hi all, my name is Emily. New here and have a situation/question for you...


So, on the same day I even find out I'm pregnant (1-2 months in), I also find out that I may have miscarried. A couple of days ago I started to bleed clots and an extremely watery blood discharge that soaked through any pads I used to try and stop it. They have already done the 1st round of blood work and tomorrow I go back for the 2nd round to see what's going on. My doctor, trying to be optimistic I guess has told me that because I don't have any pain accompanied with the bleeding that I'm probably fine. Except I never have pain. I don't even get cramps with my normal period, nevermind.


This morning when I woke up, some more light bleeding and an odd pain on my left side only. Just a little pinch feeling. As quick is it comes is as quick as it goes away. This is my first time ever being pregnant but I honestly just don't feel right. I don't feel pregnant, I don't feel anything. I know something is wrong and I'm not sure if the doctors/nurses are just trying to keep me positive but I wish they would just give me the facts straight up. This baby was not planned, my husband and I are newlyweds and although we're not ready for a child at the moment, I still need to know.


After doing some research on my symptoms, ectopic pregnancy was the first result to my searches. Can someone shed some light on any symptoms they may have experienced and whether or not pain is an absolute requirement of miscarriage?

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Registered: 05-15-2009
In reply to: emmy3309
Tue, 07-21-2009 - 2:59pm

Hi, Emily-


I'm sorry you're going through this right now!

 

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Registered: 04-19-2006
In reply to: emmy3309
Wed, 07-29-2009 - 7:45am

Sorry I am late answering. We have been in the middle of a move.

Pain is not absolute for miscarriage as everyone is different. The only thing you can do is wait for the blood work results. Pleas keep us updated and I wish you all the best.

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Registered: 04-28-2009
In reply to: emmy3309
Wed, 07-29-2009 - 7:52am
hi there well it actually depends on different people on how they take pain or not and blood during pregnany does not sound healthy at all you should tell them to give you an ultra sound i hope i helped