Pretty sure I'm pregnant with the 2nd unplanned

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Registered: 01-24-2005
Pretty sure I'm pregnant with the 2nd unplanned
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Fri, 08-31-2012 - 12:27am

I am a single mom with an 8 y/o girl. Her dad and i split shortly after she was born. My mom was supportive and helped. My step mom said I was a disgrace to the entire family. I am currently dating a guy that is absolutely amazing. We have only been together a year. We have used protection, and I have used plan b a couple times when we forgot. I have missed and he is pretty sure I am pregnant. I worry what my family is going to think if I am so I just deny the whole thing. My daughter would be happy and my mom would be okay. I just don't know If I could handle being considered a disgrace by my step mom again. I know my bf and I will be getting married soon, his plan would be next year. I just don't know how to be okay with a 2nd unplanned pregnancy. Never how I wanted things to work out. especially after the first ones dad leaving/ cheating on me. I think a part of me is scared to death that if I am that the currant bf will leave too.

How do i become okay with this again?

 

Please help

jw