Unplanned pregnancy at 42--I'm horrified
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|Wed, 10-12-2011 - 2:53pm|
I've been with my fiance for 13 years (engaged/living together for 6), and I've obviously been uncertain about whether to go through with the marriage. Actually, I've been pretty certain that he wasn't right for me, but he's a great guy and I didn't want to hurt him--I've been very cowardly, hoping that eventually he would have enough of it with my uncertainty and end it himself. That hasn't happened.
As I got older, I've been worried about whether I would regret not having children, especially after staying in an uncertain relationship for so long. Well, after being religiously careful for all these years, we had one night of stupidity. Afterward I figured I was 42, so nothing was likely to come of it.