Unplanned pregnancy - - is the baby my husband's or my lovers???? HELP!
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Unplanned pregnancy - - is the baby my husband's or my lovers???? HELP!
| Mon, 04-02-2012 - 6:49pm |
So I'm sure you can tell by the title of my post that I find myself in QUITE a conundrum, here. I need some thoughts and advice, and I really did not know where to turn.
Here's the situation:
I have been having an long-distance love affair with a coworker of mine who lives 1,000 miles away. He and I have seen eachother on three occasions on 'business trips', and have slept together numerous times, without protection. (I have no idea what I was thinking. :-(
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Wow, that is quite a dilemma!
Based on the timing of events, it sounds like it is likely your DH's child. However, I don't know that you'll be certain about anything until after the baby is born and you've had a paternity test done. I don't know how you'd go about do that unless one of the men in your life knows what is going on. :(
Let us know what you find out at the doctor and how things are going with you emotionally. Hang in there!
Well, I certainly hope it's your husbands.....poor guy!
Kiki (hit my magic age of 45 and no longer TTC),but mom to a beautiful teen DD & 2 angels in heaven & married to my best friend