before you make a decision

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Registered: 04-12-2009
before you make a decision
Sat, 07-25-2009 - 7:43pm

Just reading through the messages here... and whoa I've been there too. Rocks and hard places and men that don't know the first thing about women's hardwired mamabear-hood :)

anyway... I just wanted to invite the ladies here to read the "abortion support" board. There, women, myself included, are dealing with the decision to terminate and the aftermath of abortion, some doing okay, some not so good, but for many, it was so much more difficult than expected. Relationships and marriages and kids-- the relationships they thought they were saving, suffer too. Not just immediately but for years and years to come.

If you are considering terminating you may want to have a look... I know unplanned pregnancy can be CraZyLaNd but please slow it down and think it through. It is YOUR decision and you owe to yourself to be as well-informed as you can possibly be. Abortion is one of the few decisions in life that is 100% irreversible.

"We have much courage for the abstract, but not for the concrete."
-Helen Keller
"We have much courage for the abstract, but not for the concrete."
-Helen Keller