I don't want him to settle for being a 'C' student

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I don't want him to settle for being a 'C' student
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Wed, 01-11-2012 - 10:04pm

Nathaniel's 2nd report card of the year came home today.

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great idea! I do have him read them to me outloud w/ homework if he is struggling w/ the directions. I never thought of putting them in colors like that though. I used to use a highlighter to help him w/ his handwriting when he was in earlier grades. His handwriting was so hard to read and his spacing was awful. He was in OT for a weak fine motor skill. What I would do is use a yellow highlighter to highlight spaces for him to write the words. That way his words were spaced properly and he had to write his words in the highlighted box I had provided. Kept things alot neater and made him more aware of what he was doing.

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Good question....I haven't really gotten much of an answer from him or his teacher. My best guess is that he is sitting there pretending to do the work and then just bringing it home.

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I thought I had some activity like that working out last semester. He really really really wanted to do robotics team and did not get picked. When he got the rejection letter I felt so bad. They really sugar coated it and made it sound nice, he honestly couldn't undertand by just reading the letter himself that he had not made it. My sister had picked him up that day and she read it to him, he asked her 'Monster, does that mean I didn't make it?' (he calls her Monster, don't ask, family thing but its a term of love I promise) she felt awful telling him no you didn't baby.
I had really talked to him when he tried for it aobut how he would have to prove to me he could handle both that and his homework and then it didn't happen.

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Thank you :) Having him ask her and her email me is a good idea. I know he is working hard w/ his homework at least b/c I see him doing that.

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No I don't want to make him feel worse you are absolutley right. I am going to take many of these ideas all of you ladies have given me and start using them ASAP.

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Thank you. I know some of the teachers in the middle school, mainly 7th and 8th grade teachers b/c they were my middle school teachers and I know they are great teachers. I have heard good things about the middle school SPED teacher too, from those middle school teachers who taught me. I am going to start taking him w/ me to visit my old teachers (I still go back and see my 7th grade math teacher and have for years, she was at my wedding, we are very close) so he can be in the middle school. I think it will help the transition. He has known my 7th grade math teacher for years, we always trick or treat at her house and have since he was a toddler. If we can just get through this next semester I have high hopes for middle school.

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When he got the rejection letter I felt so bad. They really sugar coated it and made it sound nice, he honestly couldn't undertand by just reading the letter himself that he had not made it.

Oh my gosh, I know exactly how you feel. Ds9 wanted to do handbell choir this year. They've never had a tryout but apparently they had more kids interested than they had handbells and they ended up doing a type of tryout. They didn't explain that and ds didn't understand he'd be expected to read music well (I have no doubt that if they explained, he could have learned it). Then, they sent a letter that was so crazy vague and sugar-coated that he actually thought it was a 'wecome to bell choir" note. He came home super excited and I had to break it to him that he was not being welcomed, he was being rejected. UGH!!!!

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