Frustrated with the teacher! (long)

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Registered: 06-09-2005
Frustrated with the teacher! (long)
Tue, 08-30-2011 - 9:59pm

So, remember I said I was worried about Joshua's teacher? Well, I have an update.....
The first day I picked him up from school. I do the usual of asking how his day was. He was super excited telling me how great it was, then there was a "but". He said his teacher said he is NOT allowed to mention Harry Potter in HER classroom. I calmly asked him "Did she say why?" He said "She said it was because she is a Christian." I then asked him "Did you tell her that you are a Christian too?" He just shrugged and said "I'm sure she knows that". I then asked him if he knew that Harry Potter was make believe. He said "Of course Mom!". I let it go even though I was shaking mad on the inside. I didn't want him to see that I was upset. First of all, this is a public school, where religion should not come in to play. Secondly, who is SHE to basically tell my son he is not a good Christian because he reads a FICTIONAL book?

Later that night, as we were getting his clothes laid out for school he said "Mom, I think I want to wear my Gryffindor shirt to school tomorrow" I said that was fine, and then he said "I want to bring my book to finish reading during quiet time too." I said okay. When I picked him up from school the next day I asked him how his day was. He said "Good" I then asked him if he read his book. He said "Yes, and she didn't say anything about it." So I decided not to do anything just yet.

Fast foward to today, just over a week later. He comes home and says "Mom, She told me 'NO Harry Potter for you' again today". I asked him why, and he said he didn't know, she just said he couldn't read it. He is in the right reading range for it, so there is really no reason for him not to be able to read it. I have read the books, and discuss them with him as well, making sure that he understands that it is fiction. I sent the teacher an email tonight, telling her that Joshua told me there is a problem with him reading Harry Potter. I know that children can sometimes misconstrue things that are said, so if she could please contact me and let me know if there is a problem. I left it open enough for her to tell me her reasoning.

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Registered: 01-05-2005
Thu, 09-01-2011 - 1:03pm

The reason I suggested the Narnia and Wizard of Oz books is because they are books that "Christians" (of a certain type) like to ban from libraries because they have witches, magic and talking animals in them.

Now I get it, and I like it. ;)

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Registered: 10-08-2004
Thu, 09-01-2011 - 10:15pm

I can't believe she has not emailed you back yet.


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Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 09-02-2011 - 12:08pm

Ugh Debbie, so sorry this is going on.


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Registered: 08-31-2009
Fri, 09-02-2011 - 2:39pm

When she became a public school teacher, she checked her religious views at the door.


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Registered: 05-02-2004
Sat, 09-03-2011 - 9:04pm
I like that! I do take pride that we have a number of banned books, including Captain Underpants, Pippi Longstockings and Pinkerton books. The theme all being kids who rebel against adults. Also a bunch of those others that I mentioned. (Underpants is totally stupid and vapid reading, but are fun for beginning readers.) Might be funny if all the kids showed up with Underpants books to read one day too....stupid teachers being the main gag in the books! (Certainly below your son's level though.)
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Registered: 06-09-2005
Wed, 09-07-2011 - 2:26pm
Yesterday, Joshua came home saying that the teacher told him to tell me that she didn't get my e-mail. So I printed out my sent copy and sent it with him. Today I get an email that says: Received your note, thanks. I am sending you a letter home with Joshua explaining the situation that happened at school in relation to the information in these books.
Have a good day.
Ms. I
So now I am just waiting for pick up time to read the "letter", I foresee a trip to the principals office tomorrow.

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Registered: 06-09-2005
Wed, 09-07-2011 - 4:53pm

okay, here is the letter, first off she spelled our name wrong (I edited her name and our last name out):
Dear Mrs R,

Thank you for sending the note. The internet system sometimes blocks outside emails.

In reference to the Harry Potter books, any student may read books of their choice; however, the knowledge Joshua gained from reading so many Harry Potter books (that have magic chants in them and promote witchcraft) caused him to us that information on another student at school last week.

Joshua told one student on the playground that he could cast a spell of of him because he saw lightning in his eyes and that meant an evil spirit was there. The other student was scared and cried at recess and in the classroom. The three boys in question were sent to the counselor for discussion.

Our library at MVIS does not carry these high level books. They are for more mature readers in Junior High. What Joshua reads at home is his choice. We have so many other good books to choose from at school that most 4th graders read them.

I appreciate your concern for your son and others at school. Thank you for being a considerate parent. I enjoy having Joshua in my classroom.


teachers name

So now if you were his parent how would you respond? I am at a loss and feel that I should just go to the principal. I am going to be calling the media center in the morning to verify that the books are not in the library as well.

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Registered: 05-28-2000
Thu, 09-08-2011 - 1:19pm
He should still be able to read Potter at school.

I see a few issues:

Your child told another kid he has an evil spirit in him. Why were you not told this???

Your child threatened to cast a spell on a child. Why were you not told about that???

Your child was sent to the counselor's office. Why were you not notified about that???

I'd be ticked about all of it and would want to get to the bottom of it. I also know I would be ready to wring my kid's neck for not telling me that he was in the counselor's office for doing those things.

FWIW - I'd make it clear that my kid would read Potter at school if he wants & the next time he talks about putting spells on people you'd like a call and you will address the matter at home.

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Registered: 01-05-2005
Thu, 09-08-2011 - 4:19pm

Okay, I don't mean to be flip, but I have to say, is this REALLY how kids act in 4th grade? I mean, your son joking about seing an evil spirt caused a kid to cry? I have a 4th grade son and I truly find it hard to believe that a child was so terrorized by your son talking about evil spirits. I'd investigate THAT claim first. And did your son really learn about witchcraft and magic chants from Harry Potter? Hellooooo... ever hear of Halloween? Do they discuss different genres in 4th grade? Fantasty versus non-fiction anyone??

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Registered: 10-24-2004
Thu, 09-08-2011 - 6:48pm
I agree with you on those points too. A parent should always be told when their child has been sent to the counselors office not matter what. If this was such and issue why did the teacher not notify you that same evening to discuss this versus not addressing the issue for days and days.

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