Stop Trying To Be a Better Mom & Try Being a Happier One

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Stop Trying To Be a Better Mom & Try Being a Happier One
Thu, 04-07-2011 - 8:45pm

Dr. Meg Meeker casts her candid and observant eye on the obstacles all mothers face and more importantly, how to overcome them, in “The Ten Habits of Happy Mothers.” Here’s an excerpt.


As pediatrician of twenty-five years and a mother for twenty-six, I have listened to a whole lot of mothers. And I think that I have come to understand some fundamental truths about us. At least, some things which I think are true. First, we are a group that wants desperately to be good at what we do. We want to be good to our friends and husbands and we want to be great to our kids. We love intensely and we work hard. But we have a problem. In the past fifty years, we have been given an overwhelming number of opportunities. We can be whomever we want to be and our hard work will (usually) be rewarded. This is good. But in the midst of the onslaught of opportunity in our lives, we have become confused, and some of us have become a bit obsessed.

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