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|Mon, 01-07-2013 - 5:41pm|
This sounds like something I should have been posting about during HS, but this is DD's first encounter. These were her bffs last semester. She is shy and had a little difficulty making friends this summer, she had major insomnia the first week, blindsided with a breakup with boyfriend in November--what a semester! Anyway, they have the same classes due to their major, but they were ice cold to her today. They ignored her, or said just enough to her. When she tried to find out what was going on, they wouldn't tell her. One of them just shrugged. One of them texted her to 'chill, they were busy.' When she asked if they didn't want to be friends with her any more, they texted "applause." Two weeks ago while they were on break, and not in the same cities, she thought they were fine. They sent holiday messages. We have brainstormed about this and we can't come up with anything that could have led to this. I have told her to let it go, make new friends, immerse herself in schoolwork, organizations and activities, blah, blah. Told her to be glad it happened now instead of after a year or two. And definitely not to post any random thoughts about it on FB or anywhere else. She does have some other friends, but not like these 3 other girls. My heart hurts so badly for her. Can you think of anything, any thoughts to help her and me?
P.S. DH just came in and said that very possibly she said something to one girl about another and she went back and told the others. We hadn't thought of that. Hmmm.