When to ask for a special education plan?

I don't know if excersises will help him or not. His fingers overlap and a few are bent to the side. I think when he puts pressure on his fingers the joints dislocate, and that's why he has such a light touch.

Wehn I spokke to the teacher that other day, she said that there is another part of the evaluation coming home tonight (Monday). I am just so sad for him that he is not doing as well as we had hoped. He doesn't like school; he honestly prefers going to in the see his doctors.

I told the teacher we may consider pulling him out of school, and reintroducing it next year, but she said to wait until the report comes home tonight, and then schedule a meeting.

The other report that was to come home with DS that day, endedup being just a sheet of paper saying that I would need to schedule a meeting with the teacher before I get the results. Grrr. I wrote a note in his parent/teacher communication book asking if the original progress report was a generic one used for all normal children, or if it was one specifically for DS. She didn't answer my specific question, but sent home a form for us to go over; and I don't understand any of it. One thing that I know is not being followed is allowing DS more time to eat. I send a wide variety of things for him to eat (not expecting him to eat it all, but I expect him to eat something) The only thing they make him eat his his jam sabdwich (without crust), and there have been times that he only eats 3/4 of it. We just took his feeding tube out in May that he had since birth, and our Paed is constantly at us about he weight. We really need the school's help in getting food into him, or the tube will have to go back in. Also, I send Bear Paw cookies, and they always come home in he lunch. I asked him if he didn't like them (so I'd try to figure out another snack to send), and he told me that they are not allowed to have cookies (they are nut free so I thought it would be ok). These cookies have 100 calories. Considering he does not eat much at all at school or at home, 100 calories are 100 calories, and he NEEDS them.