My frugal boys and QOTW

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My frugal boys and QOTW
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Thu, 12-17-2009 - 9:06am

My 13 and 11 yo boys have decided to buy Xmas gifts for their brother, sister, dh and me. Well, they are pooling their $$ and doing it together. Which, given their lack of cooperation at times, is pretty amazing in itself, LOL!!


Tomorrow is an early-release day and I told them I'd take them out shopping then. So, more news to come w/their gift decisions and costs.

Kelly



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Thu, 12-17-2009 - 9:55am
My 9yo DS does buy for his brothers, mostly because they are actually his half brothers so they don't live with us and he doesn't see them much. I foot the bill, but it's usually pretty reasonable. I don't know that I would do it with a sibling it the same household.
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Thu, 12-17-2009 - 11:02am
Johnathon is only 3 years old, so we foot the bill for any gifts that he gets his mommy and daddy or his cousins.


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Thu, 12-17-2009 - 12:25pm
Gideon has already bought his baby brother a present.
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Thu, 12-17-2009 - 7:16pm

we take alex out to pick a gift for lily we pay


'lily' picks a gift for alex also and we pay...


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Thu, 12-17-2009 - 9:56pm

In general, my kids do not buy gifts for each other or their grandparents, or for us parents. When they were in elementary school, they would have the stupid holiday bazaar every year,



 

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Fri, 12-18-2009 - 7:16am
My two girls do exchange gifts, usually something small that they pick and I pay for, sometimes they make things at our schools Christmas craft night (where kids make gifts for free to give their family), and sometimes they give each other something they have but their sister wants so no cost there.
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Fri, 12-18-2009 - 10:26am

No siblings here.

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Fri, 12-18-2009 - 10:49am

My son is a only child, so

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Sat, 12-19-2009 - 4:50pm
I always had my kids buy for their siblings....when they were younger, I paid for the gift or the materials to make a gift...as they got a little older, I chipped in x amount but let them earn money if they wanted to spend more...and then as they got to the age that they were working/babysitting etc they took over paying completely

Sherry


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Sun, 12-20-2009 - 12:07am

We just took my girls out today to buy Christmas presents. They picked out one thing together for their soon-to-be baby brother (who will be here by Christmas - at least, he better be). They each picked out something for each other, too. Of course we paid (they are nearly 3 and 4).

At this age, I just want to teach them that Christmas is more than getting - and try to steer them into getting something sissy would like and not something they want for themselves. As they get older, we'll deal more with the money aspect and putting them on a budget and later having them use their own money. We actually let them spend quite a bit on each other, but I think it will be nice for each of them to have a very-coveted gift that came from their sister.

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