I have not specifically requested a Male teacher, but I have requested certain teachers.
DD was going into 3rd grade, and I knew the teachers. I also knew DD and one particular teacher did not mesh well, so i requested a different teacher, the school was cooperative.
So, what do you think it is about "maleness" that works better for your kid? Is there any other way to phrase the request? Is there a way your kid responds to male authority figures, maybe with non-school examples?
Yeah, I've requested a male teacher, for my non-ADHD'er, and I talked about male influence & the fact that my kid was picking up the cultural stereotypes of male/female more than a bit too much & I'd love to see him with a truly gentle male teacher as a role-model balance. He did get the teacher (yay!), it's worked out great--but I'm not sure I'd've requested "random" male. We can't request teachers AT ALL in our school, so I had to be apologetic & say that I'd be doing it if there were 2 male teachers. Really, of course, any male elementary teacher is likely to be nice--it's not the standard for males to be, as it were.
The first thing you should do is make sure there is a male teacher at the next grade level. Male teachers are beginning to be a rare commodity in education, especially at the elementary level.
What you just wrote sounds good to me--gets the point across quite clearly, if you know what I mean? It's about the KID, not the teacher, as it were. With a 3/4 chance just randomly, I'd hope that would do it!
I have not specifically requested a Male teacher, but I have requested certain teachers.
DD was going into 3rd grade, and I knew the teachers. I also knew DD and one particular teacher did not mesh well, so i requested a different teacher, the school was cooperative.
A child may HAVE ADHD, but it is not what they ARE. Never tell a child they ARE ADHD.
So, what do you think it is about "maleness" that works better for your kid? Is there any other way to phrase the request? Is there a way your kid responds to male authority figures, maybe with non-school examples?
Yeah, I've requested a male teacher, for my non-ADHD'er, and I talked about male influence & the fact that my kid was picking up the cultural stereotypes of male/female more than a bit too much & I'd love to see him with a truly gentle male teacher as a role-model balance. He did get the teacher (yay!), it's worked out great--but I'm not sure I'd've requested "random" male. We can't request teachers AT ALL in our school, so I had to be apologetic & say that I'd be doing it if there were 2 male teachers. Really, of course, any male elementary teacher is likely to be nice--it's not the standard for males to be, as it were.
Good luck!
My DS responds better to male influences (except his father for some reason).
Kathy
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