hard lesson to learn

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Registered: 04-28-2003
hard lesson to learn
Tue, 04-29-2003 - 9:53pm
Well I have some bad news. My 15 year old went to a friends b_day party which was ok. But what was not ok is the fact that she snuck out with 2 boys & 2 other girls. bad part is they got drunk.. even worst was one of the boys was 24 and the other was 19... they left at 11:00 and came back at 3:00. ohh she knew she was in trouble when we were able to get in touch with them thru a cell phone one of the kids had. and she thought it wasn't mom on the phone. When I said wanna bet? she knew then she was caught and in trouble. Well KJ is on probation. Thursday the probation officer is going to put my child in an attention home. and from there I have no clue. Yes I told on her. No this is not the first time this has happened. this is the 4th time she has done this. She was sent to a mental institute 2 times, went thru the T.R.I.P. program and it helped her attitude but not her decission making. The medications are helping with her anger outbursts. Soooo my baby whom I love with all my heart and soul will be taught a hard lesson. She will be sent off for 90 days to boot camp. It is a hard lesson that a parent has to do whethere they like it or not. Yes I have cryed my eyes out and tears are streaming down right now but I know that what I am doing is for the best. sometimes showing them is for the best.