I cannot imagine how hard it is to do it all alone. We can offer support, and advice whenever you need it.
Does your DD have any Comorbids? Those are some heavy duty meds for only ADHD.
I would let go of the room cleaning, shut the door, and let her live in filth if she wants to. That is what I did, and DD figured it out finally.
A child may HAVE ADHD, but it is not what they ARE. Never tell a child they ARE ADHD.
I have to agree about what the CL said, if she wants to live in