Hi !! Been awhile since I've been here!
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| Fri, 07-27-2007 - 4:17pm |
Hi Everyone!
I see lots of new faces and even some old ones too!! I finally had some time so I thought i would check in and let you all know what I've been up too! I've been so busy working and trying to make some money, that I just don't have that much free time anymore!
DH and I have finally agreed on everything....so the divorce is just around the corner...just paperwork now. A least I hope so!! I hope nothing else comes up to prolong this anymore. We separated last Sept, so its been a very bumpy ride these last few months. I started seeing someone about 4 months ago. He lives 2hrs away, but he's really sweet and the boys really like him. DH is apparently also seeing someone, according to the boys....but he hasn't said a word to me. He is still prying into my life by asking questions ....and unfortunately asking the boys questions constantly too.
He is not liking the fact that I am seeing someone. He actually asked Nathan if he likes this guy better than him. Which Nathan replied....I like you daddy and I like T. LOL
He also had the nerve to ask Nathan..."Do you miss me?"...which Nathan replied...."no".
LOL I mean REALLY!! I had just taken the boys out of town...for a visit with my bf. They had fun...Nathan had no time to miss his daddy. He then asked Nathan AGAIN the next day..."do you miss me?" Nathan replies, "well..uhm....a little." He was so stumped, he didn't know what to say. DH has also questioned Nathan on why he doesn't talk to him much on the phone...very short answers, etc. DUH!! He doesn't like talking on the phone. The thing is that I used to run interference....between him and Nathan. DH has troubles communicating and understanding Nathan. For instance, Nathan is scared of dogs.....so about a month ago...DH TAKES HIM TO A DOG SHOW...LMAO!!! Of course, they had to leave. I told myself that I was going to try not to interfere anymore, if he wants a good relationship with his boys....he is just going to have to start making more effort.
Anyways, I am working online and able to stay home with the boys. Its very flexible and I'm able to increase my hours as I get myself and the boys used to me working again. Staying home for 10yrs and then going back to work is tough. I will eventually work outside the house, but hopefully once the boys are a bit older. I will be getting spousal and child support (spousal for 5yrs.), so this will help me get back on my feet. We are still in this huge house though...still trying to sell it. So in the meantime, DH is paying me a different amount (more) just so we can pay for the mortgage and the other bills while in the house. He is still living with his brother.
The boys are doing well. Nathan just finished ESY...last day was on Thursday. I can't believe he is going into the third grade!! OOHHH...and we finally can tie our shoes now!!! YAY!!
I hope everyone here is well. Miss you all!
Michelle

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