I am so angry.

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Registered: 11-28-2006
I am so angry.
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Fri, 04-16-2010 - 2:03pm

Yesterday, someone emptied out my son's back pack in the PE locker room and smeared poop on his stuff. On the wall was written Chris is a D*ck. Now according to the PE teachers this was written along time ago, but it's interesting that the back pack was dilibertly placed below the message. Also my son doesn't like to change with the other boys so he hides in a corner where the showers are (way far away from the crowd) and everyone knows he goes there to change.

I am still so angry how another kid (who we think is the same one that has bullied our son previously) can do something this disgusting.

We had a meeting with the VP this morning and he promises to get to the bottom of this. I'm sure nothing will be done as there are no witness's. In fact the VP commented how the PE teachers noticed a problem but just told Chris to start putting his back pack in their office, like since they didn't see any poop, then it didn't happen. I had to say that two other kids saw the poop, it's just chris threw it away before he approached the other teachers because he was so grossed out.

Can you believe this???!!!

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: tebald
Fri, 04-16-2010 - 2:13pm

Um, just another idea you might want to bring up with the school because it might help to get some reconciliation...not only is this bullying, but it is also a health threat.

                                

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Registered: 11-28-2006
In reply to: tebald
Fri, 04-16-2010 - 2:32pm
You what, that is something that Paula and Jessie said last night in chat. I forgot about the health dept. I will call today. Thanks for the reminder.
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Registered: 11-13-2003
In reply to: tebald
Fri, 04-16-2010 - 2:43pm

WHAT???????

Molly
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Registered: 02-28-2008
In reply to: tebald
Fri, 04-16-2010 - 2:43pm

Ugh.

Kids can be so mean and disgusting.

I hope you get some action on this one. Tolerating that kind of behavior just encourages more of the same.

The entire class should be held responsible since I'm certain there were witnesses that did nothing to stop it.

Poor kid....

Andrea, mom to

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: tebald
Fri, 04-16-2010 - 2:48pm

OMG! I would be livid! I know that they probably won't find out who did this but this is bullying to the ultimate extreme.


Maybe the VP and PE teacher need to have a little chat with the class about and go over the bullying policy of the school.

Susan, mom to Sam 11 and Connor 9
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Registered: 06-02-2004
In reply to: tebald
Fri, 04-16-2010 - 3:15pm

Oh my gosh! That is horrible! Disgusting and horrible! I hope the school can get to the bottom of it soon. That type of thing is not only bullying, but it's also a health-risk.

Amy~mom to Natalie, Lily, & Joshua

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Registered: 09-13-2006
In reply to: tebald
Fri, 04-16-2010 - 3:55pm

I've been sitting here, speechless, trying to come up with something to say. The whole thing is beyond unacceptable, on so many levels.

Smearing feces on someone's belonging is something that, imo, ought to be punishable by expulsion. It's bullying, and it's a health risk for the entire school. Anyone who is willing to do something like that is beyond second chances.

Hugs to you and Chris.

Evelyn

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Registered: 12-19-2009
In reply to: tebald
Fri, 04-16-2010 - 4:48pm

Today John was so fed up with the bullying that he came home from school early.

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Registered: 03-09-2009
In reply to: tebald
Fri, 04-16-2010 - 4:59pm
In addition to the Health Department, I might consider calling the police over this. Deliberately exposing someone to body fluids and toxic substances is considered assault these days.
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Registered: 12-22-2003
In reply to: tebald
Fri, 04-16-2010 - 6:40pm

I'm not sure if it's assault, but it's definitely vandalism. I would call the police. If nothing else, it will make the school know that you're not kidding about the bullying BS they're allowing to take place.

Hugs to you. I would be an absolute mess had this happened to one of my kids.

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