OMG I am gonna explode with anger

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OMG I am gonna explode with anger
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Wed, 06-06-2007 - 8:18pm

Ok I have Adam in a therepy based 1/2 day summer camp for one week.
I paid $100--no big deal since he has been out of school for two wks the kid needs something else.

Well the first day seem kind of unorganized and I gave it the benefit of the doubt cause it was at least a social skill kinda thing (so I thought).

The second day he whined for just a second and I thought nothing of it cause it just lasted a moment.

Well today I had my BSC come (behavioral support consultant) drop in to see how he was doing.

She reported it was a NIGHTMARE. Some kid beat my son up and I WAS NOT TOLD. NOw I wanna kill someone. Those idots saw her there and KNEW I was gonna talk to her today and they STILL DIDN'T TELL ME. It got to the point she had to leap into action to deter this maniac ASD child from attacking my son. Adam wouldn't hurt a fly and all he does is flinch. My BSC had to hold him to console him. The kicker is the kid punch my BSC in the hip and the bruise is a doozy of a bruise too.

When I got him today, I was told all was fine and the child's mother was pulled aside and I didn't hear what was said, but my BSC had it out with the camp intructors.
In my right mind I would go tomarrow (sans child) just to give them a piece of my mind but to cover my BSC's butt I have to wait till I sign this form tomarrow.

God only know if this happened the previous two days before cause all I got when I pick him up was some stupid craft and them telling me he was good.............BULL SH*T

There are just 2 of them and 3 kids---------------my God I could of ran this myself.
They are just OT and I was under the impression that it would be staffed accordingly.

What sucks even futher, I have sign a consent form from my BSC before I go totally postal on someone.
I WILL have someone fired, that's for damn sure.
I WILL have this agency reported, that's for damn sure too............

I wanna just cry, scream and hurt someone. I can't believe I left my baby with such a incompetent group of a$$holes..............

Sorry, I really need to go and chill............

--Nora

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Wed, 06-06-2007 - 9:20pm

Oh Nora, how awful for your and for Adam. I am so sorry that this happened. And I'm so glad that your BSC was there to help protect Adam from the agressive kid. This doesn't sound right and I hope you get the kind of answers that you need.

Heather

                                

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Wed, 06-06-2007 - 9:35pm

Well, Nora - good for you momma for checking on the program at all!

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Wed, 06-06-2007 - 9:37pm
(((Adam)))

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Wed, 06-06-2007 - 10:11pm

Nora - I'm so sorry that his camp turned out so badly. You had no way of knowing, but I'm so glad you sent someone to check it out.

I'm furious at those idiots for you.

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Wed, 06-06-2007 - 10:45pm
Hugs to both you and Adam, I don't know if I could have had the same restraint you had...I hope these people get what they deserve! They shouldn't be running a camp if they can't protect their little ones. That isn't fair at all and certainly to not tell you about it was incredibly idiotic. You are very lucky to have someone watching out for both you and Adam! Stay strong Lady!
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Wed, 06-06-2007 - 10:53pm

Nora,


You were right to follow your gut and keep on top of that situation.


If they had a kid who was a hitter, they should have made it a priority to ensure that kid did not target or hit any of the other kids.

-Paula

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Wed, 06-06-2007 - 11:54pm

Well I have had the chance to cool off per say...............

I plan on going thru the chain of command to find out who is really at fault and in order of the fault as well....
I am pretty sure after my BSC read the instructors the riot act that they would have talked to the mom (hitter mom).
It's gonna be obvious when we don't show up tomarrow that the sh*t is gonna hit the fan.

I really yelled my heart out on hear and to my friends via the telephone so when I go in face to face & when I make my phone calls, I'll be more level headed.

I wanted to errupt while sitting on my couch listening in utter horror to what happend to my little man.

He is gonna be SO entirely spoiled tomarrow too. :-)

This hurt really bad. I really hope this doesn't happen to another child.

Thanks Girls,
Nora