Our Update...moving on
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| Sun, 10-15-2006 - 1:14pm |
Hello all,
Those who may remember me know that I have two boys age 3 and 4 on the spectrum. My STBX left us in January. It's been a mess.
However, on the 28th of this month I am moving the boys and I into a nice townhouse of our own in the area. I did alot of homework for school districts, etc. I am working on the divorce through an agreement that will hopefully go through without difficulty.
And I have met a wonderful guy named about 2 months ago and we have been inseparable ever since. He also has 2 kids ages 5 and 7. We are going to see if we can blend our households into one once we get settled into our house and see where things go from there.
The boys have been doing great. Matty is making slow and steady progress. Austin's language has flourished and his play skills and imagination are now at the 4 and 5 year old level even though he is still 3. He would lose his PDD dx now if I had him retested, but I will wait til before Kindy to do that.
I try not to get to excited about the positives. I am still left with such a huge mess from the ex. I have to move regardless because the house will be forclosed on because he stopped paying it. His truck got repo'd. I will have to claim bankruptcy because of him. But, somehow I just figure it will work itself out in the end. I will make it work. They will have to take me kicking and screaming otherwise!!
Valerie

Val,
I'm sorry to hear about what your STBX has been doing. Not paying the mortgage??
I'm hoping we don't have to file bankruptcy....but not sure as of yet.
Nice to hear that the boys are doing well. WTG Austin!! That is wonderful! And Matt still making progress....also great news! Its amazing how fast they grow...I can't believe they are already 3 and 4.
I'm glad to hear that you are seeing someone. I knew you would find a wonderful man! I am very happy for you. Are you working these days? Has STBX been paying child support? I am looking for work myself, but as you know, hard to do when you have an autie and no one to watch them.
Take Care and keep us updated....I'm on YIM, so we can chat whenever you have the time!!
michelle