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So Stressed
| Tue, 10-24-2006 - 12:57pm |
Well...we are moving on Saturday and I am trying to pack when I can. BF can't help because his son had surgery yesterday and I won't see him basically til Sunday. So, it's just me and my parents and a few friends. STBX is not helping at all and hasn't seen the kids but 10 minutes in the last 3 weeks.
I am planning to do some big changes when we move, like not having the house gated, changing the way we do bedtime, etc. So, plannning on how to do that.
Plus, I just dropped off the divorce settlement papers today. So now we're just waiting for the judge to sign and it's all done.
Too much at once and I feel like I need to run, or scream!! Just needed to vent, Valerie

Oh Valerie, vent away. You have a lot on your plate. You are such a strong woman and you will get through this. Just take it one thing at a time, one box at a time, and think about how much better things will be ultimately after you have finished with the move itself. Plus, soon you'll have some closure when the judge signs off.
Hang in there. Sending you lots of hugs.
Katherine
Oh my, I had to make a move like that twice. Just me and my parents. We had to rotate who would be watching the boy. Not fun at all!!
The last move I made, I made a vow to myself that I would at least hire a couple of guys to load and unload the truck.
You are doing a wondeful job and about to start a new and happier chapter in your life. It's stressful for anyone to move, let alone deal with a divorce on top of it so I take my hat off to you. You'll get through it, just like you always do!
Teresa
Good luck Val and loads of hugs.
I hope your BF's son is better soon. I hope the move goes smoothly. You can always just junk all of STBX's stuff if he doesn't want to help move it.
good luck, I hate moving but in the long run it will be a good thing.
Renee