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| Sat, 02-04-2006 - 12:54pm |
hi all. i guess i'm finally ready to come here with this. i have been here daily, but haven't posted much lately. dh decided he was leaving me on january 8th. he moved out and we are separated. then i found out a week later he is living with a woman whom he is starting a new relationship with. it was a blow like i could not explain. the pain was almost more then i could bare. the details are more then i could get into here. i didn't know how i was going to make it. this is a man who told me from the beginning that he didn't believe in divorce and that he would never leave me. the line he came up with that is engraved in our wedding bands is "i will never love another".
the only good thing that has come out of this is that i have lost 32# in the last month!! it has jump started interest in me cutting calories and dieting that i haven't had in probably 5+ years.
i have started this thread 5 times and never ending up posting it. now i'm ready to. for those who have known me, i've been here a few years now. can use all the prayers i can get right now. don't know what the future holds. but i'm doing a bit better with each day. thanks for reading. valerie

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(((Hugs)))
I can only imagine how difficult a time you are going through right now. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I know it's probably hard to imagine now but you will get through it. Stay strong!
Teresa
Val,
for once I am without words. I am so sorry you are going through this. I will e-mail you off-board. Know that I am there for you, if ever you need me.
-Paula
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Hey Valerie... You know I'm here and that you can call me whenever you want. We'll have a ladies night SOON!!! In the meantime, please take care of yourself and remember that you have so many people who care about you, and who are thinking of you, and who wish you the very, very best...
Jennifer
Dear Valerie,
Sending you more hugs, prayers, and positive thoughts. You must feel so sad and I am sure a million things are going through your mind. Just be sure to take care of yourself. I am glad you have a counselor to talk with. You are a strong and capable woman. I know once you start to heal, your inner warrior goddess will emerge and you'll come out on top.
Love,
Katherine
Valerie,
I'm so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers. (((Hugs)))
Samantha
Valerie,
Adding my support, prayers and positive thoughts to you.
((((HUGS))))
oh, Valerie! I'm so sorry! I'll keep you in my prayers!
Betsy
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