Totally OT

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Registered: 04-28-2007
Totally OT
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Wed, 05-23-2007 - 9:34pm

OMG, wanna throttle dh right now. He makes the money and I write the bills; it's pretty much worked thus far except the gormless moran submitted paperwork forpaycheck and DD account and now the DD goes to the wrong bank. I dealt with it this month and thought we'd budgetted within $40,....but no, apparently three transactions went through after we hit red and then the bank hit us with $30 a pop for each overdraw. So dh is all pissed and surley and I am like "hey jack @ss, am I sposed to do this all by myself??????")

Oh, and everytime the baby whimpers he walks her about for around 4 mins and then suddenly appears beside me holding a screaming baby,.....have already nursed, fed, changed and burped her (not counting playing, entertaining and generally being the center of her universe all day)....the man can't just settle her for 10 f'n mintes????? btw: HE decided not to chase down a summer job and wants to take the summer off....I am sorely tempted to find summer work as he wants to sit on his butt all summer, then he can be Momma and I will bring money in. Yeesh!!!

Dee

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Registered: 05-16-2006
In reply to: roanmom
Wed, 05-23-2007 - 10:54pm

Oh Dee, what do you expect, men are men!!!
I wanted to "throttle" my dh not too long ago this week too.

I hate when the bank acct gets screwed up, cause I'm annal like that too.

I hope it gets better.........

Nora

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In reply to: roanmom
Thu, 05-24-2007 - 9:17am

(((Dee)))

I think at least a part time summer job would be great! if he's not willing to find something you certainly should. I think that might just be heavenly!

hope it gets better!

Betsy

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Registered: 08-10-2006
In reply to: roanmom
Thu, 05-24-2007 - 9:44am
Hi Dee!
Maybe that is what you need to do, it would give you a chance to get out of the house for a bit and get some time to yourself and let him play Mr. Mom. Maybe it would give him some new appreciation for you and all you do. How long do you think he would last ;)?
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