An Update and a Question

I wouldn't worry about the conflict between the two therapies. I will note that ABA has the better scientific backing at this point, but that's just because not a lot of research has been done on floortime. I say "Throw the kitchen sink at them and hope something does the trick".

As for which therapy you personally engage in when you interact with your kiddos, do the one that feels most comfortable to you and lie to the therapists about it. You have to do what is comfortable for you - and be the mom too.

I"m glad your little guys are getting lots of therapy - early intervention helps a lot. It's great that it seems that they are making progress already. Hopefully they'll wind up high on the spectrum, if at all, by the time they hit school age.

Keep us posted!