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Wed, 04-12-2006 - 8:56pm

My 5yo DS was just diagnosed with ASD Monday. It was not a "shock" per se. I always knew there was something "off" since my DS was 18 months (no speech/language). But still, having it in black and white still hurts.


But having this diagnosis will not change the fact that my DS is still the same funny, smart, flirty, sassy boy who loves to cuddle with his mommy every morning and every night. He is still my boy, just intensified, lol.


What books or websites can you recommend to me to get me started on this adventure? His psychologist recommend a couple, but I want to hear what other Mom's recommend, kwim?


Thanks.


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Wed, 04-12-2006 - 9:17pm

Gosh, there are about a million books I would recomend depending on what issues you need to address.

For starters I would check out this book
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0399530479/sr=8-1/qid=1144890612/ref=pd_bbs_1/002-8258105-6125617?%5Fencoding=UTF8

Then there are a couple that are Asperger specific in the titles but the information is great for all of the more able end of the spectrum. The first is if you have any sorts of behavioral challenges or meltdowns. The second is for sensory stuff which all these kids deal with really.

Asperger Syndrome and Difficult Moments
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1931282706/qid=1144890699/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/002-8258105-6125617?s=books&v=glance&n=283155

Asperger Syndrome and Sensory Issues
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0967251478/qid=1144890778/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/002-8258105-6125617?s=books&v=glance&n=283155

Oh, Michelle Garcia Winner. Though this is the second book in the series I liked it better than the first. But this one is pricey. You maybe able to get alot of the info from her website.
http://www.socialthinking.com/thinkingaboutyou.htm

Websites?

Start with www.asdrendrewolf.org I only say that cause it is part mine and we have had alot of moms here write for it. There are a number of links there as well. And of course the Autism Society of America homepage. http://www.autism-society.org

Renee

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Wed, 04-12-2006 - 9:49pm

Frazz,

I'm glad to see you here! I'm sure the ladies here will help you on your road to adventure that is our kids.

Stacy

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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 7:52am

Thank you Stacy for recommending the these boards. It is overwhelming at the moment and I do not know where to begin.


(((((((((((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))


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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 8:05am

Thank you so much for a place to start.

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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 10:01am

hi and welcome...

regarding "thinking in pictures", unless you are an avid cow lover, i personally would skip it. however, that's not to say that temple grandin hasn't written some great stuff. i had the honor of meeting her two years ago and she is fascinating. i would recommend reading "emergence". i feel i was able to learn alot about my 2 sons on the spectrum through that book. much better use of time then pictures was.

take care, valerie

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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 10:23am

Hi Frazz and Welcome! I use to visit the Living on One Income board alot.....until my oldest son's behavior at school started to consume all of my time.....he was diagnosed December 2005.....so I spend a lot of my time here. This is a great group.....friendly and knowledgable.

The first book I read was Tony Attwood's Asperger's Syndrome......quick, easy read. I also liked the book by OASIS (Online Asperger Syndrome Information & Support)....check out their website as well.

My guy has a lot of meltdowns/outbursts at school (his main stressor) so Renee's recommendation of Aspergers and Sensory Issues and AS and Difficult Moments are a good choice.....both books are small but packed with info.

I have to go back to the library and get The Explosive Child.......son's guidance counselor lent me this book to read 2 years ago.....I took one look at the first page and said that was not my son and returned the book....did the same thing with the SID book she tried to get me to read.....just call me Cleopatra....Queen of De Nile.....

Again.....Welcome....look forward to learning more about you and your family.

Christie (SAHWife & Mom to two beautiful boys - Vaughn (7.5 AS) and Jack (20 mo)

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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 10:40am

Thank you for your suggestions. I will check that book out.


One thing I have learned through this journey with my son is go to the Moms first. You guys are a valuable source of knowledge. Thank you.


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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 10:46am

Hi Christie.


I use to visit the Living on One Income board a lot.....until my oldest son's behavior at school started to consume all of my time..... Totally understand, I have to give up one of my boards until I get things under control as well.


I have read the Explosive child, but it wasn't really my DS. Now the SID book, great book and we have the SID kid has fun book as well. My DS was dx with SID when he was 2 and it is still a main issue with him. We will be working hard on that this summer.


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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 4:06pm

Hi Frazz!

Welcome to the board! I have 2 boys, 7 & 9. My 7yr old was dx'd HFA when he was 5. Right now, he's in the 1st grade, and doing rather well. I've been a sahm since he was born, and I'm grateful that I was able to do so. I still continue to work on his speech and social skills, but this, of course, will be something we will continue to work on. He receives speech at school and also has a social skills class there too.

Anyway, welcome again! We have lots of wonderful people here who are very supportive and helpful...glad you're here!

michelle

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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 8:39pm

We got a temporary diagnosis for Joey this morning and I am like you. I expected it, but it's still mind blowing. The Speech and language dept says they think he has a form of Asperger's so they gave him the ASD diagnosis we were expecting. THey said not to get used to it though as it may change after the hospital finally gets a look at him. It can take up to 18 months to get him in for testing and the SLP said that without a diagnosis, we can't get into some of the classes she wants him in, so she gave him one that she thinks he has.

I'm glad that you found the group and it's helping.

Stacy

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