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|Mon, 09-18-2006 - 11:49am|
Don't even know if I have the right to complain, it's not like he's severe, but I can't handle it at the level that he's at. I was incredibly angry at my team last spring b/c I felt like they weren't helping. We finally got the services we needed, but he just keeps getting worse (physical agression, hyperactivity, emotional)
He's on meds now, but we're tweaking, we have a schedule, OT, blah, blah. AND the psychiatrist says to me "Where is your husband?" Well now, interesting question. 4 years into this and he's exactly where he's always been. I'm overwhelmed, sick and tired of having 3 kids (one who is 40) and constantly telling him what he isn't doing right and trying to get him "with the program".
Today, he reduced the household to chaos, by making my son put on his shoes early instead of going by the timer and then insisted that he put on his coat (what happened to "pick your battles"??).
I need a hug and I need a group in my area to give me regular hugs, not political stuff like the Autism Society does, but hugs and "Yeah I have the same problem" ... and someone who will smack my husband for being an idiot.