March/April G2K Cindy and Jennifer

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March/April G2K Cindy and Jennifer
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Wed, 04-25-2012 - 10:30pm
How did Julia do with her big day last Saturday? Did she enjoy everything and make it through the day?

Any news on the job? It's getting to be late April already and we wanna know!

I'm back in TN this week. Leslie is sick now. Her symptoms are thankfully limited to a fever, lethargy, and no appetite, but I'm glad we're here in case I need to take her to the doctor. I may do that tomorrow if she's still running a fever.

Oh, I forgot I didn't tell you! I was trying to make heads or tails of all the benefits that Erik signed up for through his job, and I couldn't figure out what kind of medical insurance he signed us up for. At first glance it looked like he signed up for a good one that had co-payments but no deductible, which I thought might be a good deal since we're having a baby. Our expenses will probably be pretty high, so I thought that might end up saving us some money in the long run. The plan is $214 every two weeks. Well, after I did some digging, I realized he only signed himself up for insurance! And the $214 is obviously for one person, so the family rate would have been $600 every two weeks! Needless to say, I insisted he change that. I don't know what he was thinking, unless it was just an oversight. Anyway, today he changed it to a normal plan with a pretty low deductible and only $135 every two weeks for the whole family. But anyway, I suppose that won't kick in for a week or two, so I'm glad we're in TN where we can use the state Medicaid if we're sick enough to need a dr. He had signed up for all this other junk that was really going to eat up his pay check - life insurance and accidental death and dismemberment insurance to name a couple. Like I said, I don't know what he was thinking.

I have another dr. appt. on Friday. Last time (my first appt.), they had me see the midwife only, which is standard for all first appts. But I'll be seeing the OB this time. I hope I get an ultrasound! I'm guessing this will be my last appt. at my current OB's office since hopefully Erik's insurance will have taken effect over the next month. It makes me kind of sad to leave that dr. since that's the one I used with Leslie. I really like that practice.

I misunderstood about my brother Andrew's physical therapy school situation. He does think he did poorly in this one class, which means it's still a likelihood that he'll be kicked out of the program, but we won't know for sure for several weeks. I thought we were going to find out last week, but no, that's not how it works. Anyway, if you could continue to pray that he's allowed to stay in the program or restart it soon, I'd appreciate it.

No other news here. I'm going to get my hair cut tomorrow, and I'm so excited. I didn't get it cut at all while Erik was unemployed, and it gets so shaggy and lifeless. Plus it's thicker since I'm pregnant, so I'm anxious for a cut that will be easy to style. I love pregnancy hair and skin! :-)
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Thu, 04-26-2012 - 6:51am

Julia had a great time on Saturday.


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Sun, 04-29-2012 - 12:04am
That's great that Julia made it through her long day and had fun in the process. I'm looking forward to Leslie being a little older so that we can do more fun stuff without her having to break up the day with a nap.

LOL, it's just the opposite with me and Erik. I figure everything out, and tell him to change whatever needs to be changed with paperwork, etc.

I can't tell if Leslie's fever is still lingering or if she's just warm from constantly moving and being outside some. It baffles me how she has so much energy while she's sick and tired. So unfair that adults are just the opposite ;-) She has been a bear this week. She's been a completely different child - she throws a fit at the drop of a hat, cries for no reason, gets her feelings hurt, etc. I can tell she's not feeling well, and I'm so anxious for her to get better because I don't have much patience for the constant fit throwing.

Things are going ok with the pregnancy, though I had a bad experience Wednesday with the OB I saw. He's the one doctor in that practice that I always asked NOT to have when I was pregnant with Leslie, but I forgot to mention it last time. He did a pap smear, and the first thing he said when he walked back in the room after I got dressed was that I should have an amnio. He's the only one who's ever made a big deal about my age, and he kept saying things like "If you were 15 years younger..." We were discussing the various tests I could choose to have done, and he's the only one who's ever mentioned termination if there is a problem. He said several other things that just really rubbed me the wrong way. I thought his job was to present the options for testing, tell me the benefits and risks, and then let me decide. He just gave way too much editorial opinion that was unsolicited and unprofessional if you ask me. He's so unlike the other drs. in that practice, I'm not even sure how he got in. The one bright spot was that he measured my uterus and said, "You're definitely getting bigger," which was reassuring since it's too early for dopplers and no ultrasound this time.

I THINK we got the insurance straightened out so that LEslie and I have been added, but I'm not sure when it takes effect. BUT, I also found out that the doctors I see in TN are covered by the new insurance. I don't plan on delivering here, but it's nice to know that if I were here and needed to see a doctor that I could go there and insurance would cover it.

Argh!! It's midnight, Leslie is really tired, and we have to get up early for church tomorrow, and the kid is still not asleep! She always does that - fights sleep when she's tired and on nights that we have to be up early the next day. She will be no fun tomorrow.

Oh, good news! I found out that my brother made a B in one of the classes that he thought he did poorly in. He's not sure about the other class, but since he made a B in the first one, the worst that can happen is that he has no room for error during the rest of his time in the program and will have to make at least all B's from here on out. But that's so much better than getting kicked out of the program or having to restart it! We are all so thankful that God got him through this trial, and we pray that He'll get him through the rest of the program. He's got 1.5 years to go. Thanks for praying!

Ok, I've got to get myself in bed, even though Leslie's in there jabbering away and I won't be able to get to sleep until she stops :smileysad:
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