prayers for sister and travel please
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|Fri, 09-30-2011 - 9:34am|
My sister called me yesterday. Thats really unheard of. Unless she needs me and, I like it when she does. I like it that even though she doesn't like me she knows that I love her and will do all that I can to take care of her. weird that she is my older sister. She really hates any mention of God or anything Christian. She is extremely influenced by her morman inlaws and so claims that she is a Christian. Anyway, she called me to "talk out' about what happened between her neighbor and herself. This neighbor is an elderly man whom my sister came to know because he had ponies. She purchased 2 of his ponies and learned a lot from him. In turn she helped with his wife until they put her in the nursing home. She shares meals with him and took care of him once when he was really sick - so sick in fact that he doesn' t remember any of it. (she did not have to do any "personal" cares during that time)...Fast forward to last Sunday>>>> he came over near supper time and talked to my BIL for a while. Julie told him to come in get a plate to take home. As she was getting it ready, he said "you do so much for me and you probably wont even let me hug you in thanks" Julie said "of course Mr B. (that's what she calls him)" Well he ran with it and as she put it "dry humped me for all he was worth". She freaked out, as only natural. He called the next day and aske dif she was mad at him. She wanted to get rid of him so she said "no" and told him she had to go so that she could hang up. Please don't be to judgemental about her saying that, It's harder than you'd imagine to be confronted with that sort of thing, she knows she should have told him he was inappropriate but she just was so upset she could only think of how to get him off the phone. He has tried to call her several times since adn she ignors the phone. He has come over 2 times but she doesn't go outside (she always had in the past) BIL and him talked and then he left both times. This man is in his 70's -80's age wise.