Help prayers please

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Help prayers please
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Fri, 04-04-2003 - 9:34am
edited. Sorry changed my mind about airing my dirty laundry on a public board. Please just pray for my family and for things to work out in the way that is best for all of us. Thanks


Laura


Edited 4/4/2003 1:39:54 PM ET by pocoplus5

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Fri, 04-04-2003 - 9:47am
Hi Laura

I mostly lurk also. Please know that I have said a prayer that God's grace descend upon you and your family.

Alarms went off when I read your posting. Words wound. Verbal abuse is abuse. I strongly urge you to talk to someone: a priest, a spiritual advisor, a therapist. You and your gifts from God deserve it.

That being said, I want to tell you what the priest told my DH when he was going through the annulment process so we could get married in the church. Fr Tom told my DH that in a sacramental marriage, a spouse is a reflection, hint, or vision of God's everlasting love for us. That is what we all need and deserve.

Please talk to someone about how worthy you are. You are not at your husband's mercy, but at God's.

Beth

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Fri, 04-04-2003 - 12:32pm
Beth thank you so much for your kind words. I do think thing are only going to get better for me and my boys one way or the other now. I will get help if things get any worst right now I have a group of wonderfully supportive friends and I am already starting to feel a lot better. Even though I tend to forget I am strong and I will come out of this a better person.

Laura