hi....question about hitting stage?

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Registered: 09-29-2009
hi....question about hitting stage?
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Wed, 10-28-2009 - 11:02pm

I have a four year old step son that everyone has classified his behavior as a

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 11-16-2009 - 10:17am

Thank you for the up date.

How is he responding to the changes? Things might get harder for a bit because he is going to test you all to see if you are serious. That testing doesn't always happen right away so be prepared to follow through and stick to your position.

Lots of hugs and I'm glad that your mil is seeing that your husband is making his child support payments in full and on time.

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Registered: 09-29-2009
Mon, 11-16-2009 - 11:22am
as far as i can tell, it's working, no hitting the other night...just sassing.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 11-17-2009 - 1:44pm
That's good to hear. It sounds like grandma is starting to realize that the mom is playing her -- making excuses for why things are the way they are while shifting the blame to others.

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Registered: 09-29-2009
Tue, 11-17-2009 - 6:05pm

exactly...she is a master manipulator and i just roll my eyes anymore...no point at getting mad or upset...she is who she is but someday she will have to grow up and be held accountable for her actions.

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