wwyd...ds and neigbhor

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wwyd...ds and neigbhor
Sat, 11-06-2010 - 5:02pm


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Mon, 11-08-2010 - 1:54pm

Hi Jan,

That is a difficult situation for sure.

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Registered: 05-12-2005
Sat, 11-13-2010 - 9:35pm

That seems like a tough one. I guess I would be tempted to talk to her at a 5 year old level and tell her that as happy as you are that she visits - that your son gets upset when she leaves so soon or doesn't want to play. Then you could ask her what types of things she would like to do - and see if you can find something that they would both enjoy? If you angle it so she knows that you want it to work out - it be beneficial for everyone :) Or.. I'd talk to her parents... and let them know that you feel like the visits aren't going as well as they could be - and ask for suggestions for her favorite things to do :)


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