I don't even know where to start!
Kelly Mommy to Ella (5) and Schuyler (3)
Kelly, Hi and welcome to the Toilet Teaching board.
With your DD, this is just a period that will pass once the UTI is cured. Having her in pull ups because of accidents is ok, just take the pull ups away once she is better.
For your DS, have you told him his sister has an infection and that is why she is having accidents. When he comes to you after an accident have him help clean up, rinsing out clothes to putting them in the washer or wherever you may put them. Have him get himself dressed again. Before your DS starts playing have at timer ready for him when it goes off it is to remind your DS that it is time to use the potty. I hope that helps. Please keep us updated.
You all are so smart here!
I just wanted to thank you all and tell you how all of your advice worked today!
Ella woke up this morning and was eager to use the actual toilet.