Donor backed Out !!!!!!
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|Mon, 10-01-2007 - 9:40pm|
I've been on BCP since our mock EEP cycle in June. We found our donor in mid July and had our two other couples for shared risk donor by mid-August. She started BCP and asked if we could wait until 10/1 to start our cycle. the last week i have been on 20 units Lupron complete w/ Lupron headaches. Tomorrow was my baseline U/S w/ ER on 10/21 and ET on either 10/24 or 26. I had moved my vacation and made arrangements to be off work.
She left a message for my nurse yesterday saying that she's "really sorry" and she hopes she's not disappointing too many people but she's changed her mind. UNBELIEVABLE !!!!!
We're stunned ! So is the nurse and the donor coordinator. She left a message and won't return my nurse's phone calls. She had gone through all pre-lim testing and psychological work ups. She's an educated girl who knew what was going on and was all gung ho to go for it....and now this. You should read in her profile how much she wanted to help an infertile couple and wanted to do it. She "had been thinking about it for a long time".....
My nurse said this is the 2nd time someone has backed out in since they've had the program. Everyone at the office is shocked...Eric was speechless when i told him. in addition, this girl screwed 2 other couples who we were splitting her eggs with.....so, I'm not trying to be bitter and I know that there's a reason for everything but just when it looks like things might go our way after all of our trials, we get knocked down AGAIN !!!!
So, it's back to the drawing board....I know God has plans for us but this is REALLY testing my faith !!!!
Thanks for letting me vent !!!!