I just got the word from Shady Grove that our match is complete!
Congrats on a match!!
I'm sorry you ended up tertiary, there are apparently a lot of factors which go into that decision, and when you chose is only one factor.
I'm glad you have a match! As soon as you know who your nurse is (it will be the primary recipient's), let her know about your travel plans. I suspect with fresh cycles, it probably won't be until early August or the last week in July (possibly). If someone has a conflict they try to work around it. You should hear from the primary nurse this week or at least by next week.
I'm sorry you are tertiary. This means that probably the two other women who share your cycle have had either a BFN or a m/c. The m/c patients are normally primary in the cycles after the m/c. It doesn't mean that you won't get enough eggs, it is rare for a cycle to be cancelled but occasionally it does happen. If so, you can probably count on being primary on the next one. It is pretty rare, however, and you will get a new donor password if that happens immediately.
Keeping my fingers crossed for you!
Expecting Twins September 2010
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