Not telling SO?

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Not telling SO?
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Thu, 02-02-2012 - 3:59pm

I saw on another TTC board that a member was hiding from her SO that she was charting her temps because actively TTC stressed him out, he wanted to take a more relaxed approach.

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Registered: 01-06-2000
Thu, 02-02-2012 - 5:01pm

Yea, I probably would, if I knew it were causing him stress and/or performance anxiety.


Sue
Homeschooling mom to DD15 & DS11

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Registered: 02-16-2008
Fri, 02-03-2012 - 11:49am
My DH prefers to just "let things happen," so we don't discuss it. He knows I temp (when my thermometer isn't dead) to know when AF is coming, but he doesn't realize I chart for ovulation time.
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Fri, 02-03-2012 - 7:58pm

That sounds like a good plan...you have things planned, he enjoys your "spontaneity"


Sue
Homeschooling mom to DD15 & DS11

CL of Homeschooling, Signature Showcase, Ectopic Loss, and Fertility Charting