Scared and Nervous

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Scared and Nervous
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Sat, 06-04-2011 - 2:47pm

Ok here comes the paranoia. I am scared that this has ended. I have NO symptoms anymore. My areolas are no bigger, if anything to me they look a bit smaller. And absolutely no darker. I never had any morning sickness, or any real constipation. I am not tired at all anymore and because I was already so overweight I certainly see no change in my belly. I am almost 13 weeks and although I saw the hb again at 10wks and everything looked good I also know how that can change.................I am so scared that I told my parents only for it all to go away.

Has anyone else had all their symptoms go away? Am I being crazy? I called my OB but they said unless I get cramping and bleeding (which I have not had at all) they really would not bring me in before my 6/17 u/s. So I am stuck unless I want to go to ER. But even then what would I say? I am paranoid?

Dixie

"Even miracles take a little time." ~ Fairy Godmother: Cinderella

TTC since April 2009

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Sat, 06-11-2011 - 10:24am

We probably do have the same doppler - and I had no problems at 12 weeks finding a heartbeat.

~ Meron born 12-09-11 after 3 1/2 years of TTC, IUIs and IVF.
~ #2 on the way(!) and due 06-06-13.

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Mon, 06-06-2011 - 9:25pm

I believe heather got the same doppler i had and i loved it. i am also a little over weight ( 218lbs and 5'8 when i got my bfp) i was able to find the hb at 11 weeks. It was always very reassuring to me as long as you keep in mind that sometimes it will take a good big of time this early on to find it i was lucky enough to not have a flipper baby and she was always pretty much in the same spot but some babies go crazy in there. I hope you get some piece of mind soon. i found 10-20 weeks was the hardest time in my pregnancy you arent going for alot of appointments or ultrasounds at that point and not feeling movement... my placenta was anterior and that made movement even harder to feel. Ill be praying for you, im betting this is the bean that was meant to be yours !

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Mon, 06-06-2011 - 9:02pm

Thanks Heather. I am actually considering renting one from baby beats. I am unsure about it. I am afraid if I am home and I cannot find it I will freak out even more. I cannot wait until things are good enough (assuming I get there) where I can just feel the baby. Insanity - party of 1!

Dixie

"Even miracles take a little time." ~ Fairy Godmother: Cinderella

TTC since April 2009

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Mon, 06-06-2011 - 8:51pm

Hi Dixie,

I know it's so scary.

~ Meron born 12-09-11 after 3 1/2 years of TTC, IUIs and IVF.
~ #2 on the way(!) and due 06-06-13.

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Mon, 06-06-2011 - 3:45pm
DH would not let me get a doppler due to the fear of it not working right or making me more obsessed, lol. I have anxiety disorder anyhow and I think that would have put me over the edge, even though I'm medicated;)
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Mon, 06-06-2011 - 12:12pm

Sorry to hear about what's going on. Sadly I had the same experience but my story

Me 37, DH 40 m/c Dec 2005 m/c Nov. 2007 TTC first child since July 2009 Clomid - two rounds started March 100mg
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Mon, 06-06-2011 - 11:47am
I am holding onto the hope that I am just being paranoid. (As if that is a shocking idea lol). I figure even if it has ended knowing sooner will not make it hurt less. I will be patient. Come what may.
But thank you EVERYONE for the kind words. You guys definately have made me feel better. I could not ask for better support systems.

Dixie

"Even miracles take a little time." ~ Fairy Godmother: Cinderella

TTC since April 2009

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Mon, 06-06-2011 - 11:45am
They can always check the hb if you are concerned, but I am sure everything is good:)
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Mon, 06-06-2011 - 11:26am
Actually the insurance could refuse to pay. Since it is not out of medical necessity they could deny the claim and since my OB would have no reason. I will hold out. They did not refuse but my OB office said it would be hard to get in and the chance of them doing the u/s was slim. As to another OB there really is not any and I like this OB. I will tough it out. But thanks!

Dixie

"Even miracles take a little time." ~ Fairy Godmother: Cinderella

TTC since April 2009

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Sun, 06-05-2011 - 4:00pm

Dixie, they will not refuse your request for an ultrasound! You are nervous an scared, and you want to make sure everything is alright! I would call your OB back and tell them you want to come in, if they fight you on it, I suggest finding another OB. They have protocol, but so do you!

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