are we doing the right thing?
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|Mon, 03-02-2009 - 6:20pm|
It's been a while since I have been on... I have been dealing with the results of the 2nd HSG and it was confirmed that my tubes are blocked for sure-
So, today we met with the person that discusses the financial part of IVF and I left there feeling so overwhelmed that I thought I was going to throw up! Now I keep wondering are doing the right thing? Maybe we should just forget about having children, the cost is so overwhelming and what if it doesn't work? Do I really even want to be a mother if I have to keep jumping through hoops?
It wasn't ever supposed to be like this and now I am second guessing myself. We were supposed to get married and then just get preggers- Now I worry about the financial burden this may have on DH and I~ It's one thing to just get knocked up and be broke- it's another to become broke just trying to get knocked up!
I simply don't know what to do... DH wants a biological child and I am starting to think that perhaps we are not meant to be parents- it's all just too much!