Ectopic

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Registered: 10-28-2009
Ectopic
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Fri, 04-02-2010 - 12:48pm

I'm absolutely heartbroken. Started having cramps yesterday about 6am, became severe about 11am. Called the RE, since I wasn't spotting, they thought it was OK. Cramping got better, but started bleeding around 4:30 to 8:30 pm.  Ultrasound this morning shows most likely ectopic. They will do another tomorrow and then methotrexate if they are positive.


This is so not fair! I can't quit crying.

-Jamie


Me 33, DH 36. TTC since November 2007. Possible miscarriage in January of 2008 (too early for BFP, but all symptoms point to miscarriage). Normal SA in Feb 2009. HSG showed large (50% of uterus) fundal fibroid in Feb 2009. Hysteroscopically removed in March 2009. Tried to concieve naturally until August. Repeat HSG was normal. 6 cycles of Clomid alone...never had a BFP. IUI #1 = 01/13/10, BFN. IUI #2 = 3/11/10, BFP 03/26/10, beta 1 = 57.5, beta 2 (4 days after 1) = 661.

-Jamie

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Registered: 01-13-2010
In reply to: jamieokc
Fri, 04-02-2010 - 12:56pm

Jamie,


I am so sorry to hear. Your right it's not fair.


Maybe the last ultrasound is wrong. Maybe tomorrows will be better.


Try to keep your chin up, but remember if you need to cry and vent we are all here for you.

Carrie


TTC since August 2008. Unknown infertility


IUI #1 September 2009 , BFP with twins in October, miscarriage at 8 weeks 1 day and 8 weeks 3 days


IUI#2 February 2010, no luck there.


IUI#3 March 2010, BFN


IUI#4 possibly in April

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Registered: 01-03-2010
In reply to: jamieokc
Fri, 04-02-2010 - 1:04pm

Hi Jamie,


I'm so sorry you are going through such stress!

~ Meron born 12-09-11 after 3 1/2 years of TTC, IUIs and IVF.
~ #2 on the way(!) and due 06-06-13.

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Registered: 01-23-2006
In reply to: jamieokc
Fri, 04-02-2010 - 1:16pm

Jamie,


I am so very sorry!


You're right it isn't fair. Big Hugs to you.


Nat

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Registered: 08-20-2009
In reply to: jamieokc
Fri, 04-02-2010 - 1:23pm

I'm so sorry.

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Registered: 11-07-2008
In reply to: jamieokc
Fri, 04-02-2010 - 1:46pm

Oh Jamie, I'm sorry.


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Registered: 09-06-2004
In reply to: jamieokc
Fri, 04-02-2010 - 5:34pm
Jamie - I am so sorry that you are going through this.
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Registered: 06-01-2009
In reply to: jamieokc
Fri, 04-02-2010 - 6:48pm

Jamie- I'm so sorry. How upsetting for you and DH. I hope the doctors are mistaken and it is not ectopic. However, if so, you are lucky to have found it early so that your tubes may be saved. Ectopics are still very serious and life threatening if not discovered early.

Sending you lots of love to deal with this. It does suck. But you will work through it.
Monica


Me: 37, DH: 41


TTC for 5 years . 1 Ectopic PG at 8 weeks; 2 IVF’s – (one BFP, ended in m/c at 8 weeks; one BFN); 4 IUI’s – all BFN.

Me: 39, DH: 43


TTC for 5 years . 1 Ectopic PG at 8 wee

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Registered: 03-27-2010
In reply to: jamieokc
Fri, 04-02-2010 - 11:09pm
I know what you are going through Jamie, and it's not fair.
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Registered: 07-30-2009
In reply to: jamieokc
Sat, 04-03-2010 - 8:28am
I am so so sorry Jamie, you're right it just isn't fair. I wish this wasn't happening to you, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

 

Kelly

I'm 38, DH is 42 and we are TTC #1. We've had 3 unexplained miscarriages and a bout with Asherman's Syndrome but we're determined.

BFP #4! - 1/
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Registered: 10-31-2008
In reply to: jamieokc
Sat, 04-03-2010 - 12:34pm

Jamie,


I'm so sorry you are going through this.

~Christine~


TTC since 6/2007. 
IVF #1 Jan 2009 - BFN
IVF# 2  April 2009 - BFN
IVF# 3 July

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