Feeling bad

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Registered: 08-18-2006
Feeling bad
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Sun, 03-27-2011 - 12:40pm

My DH and I have been fighting a lot lately, and go figure, this is the first cycle I'm supposed to start Clomid (just finished the Provera to jump start my period).

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Registered: 08-18-2006
In reply to: chapel37
Fri, 04-08-2011 - 12:45am

Hi ladies,

Thank you for your kind responses!

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Registered: 03-13-2011
In reply to: chapel37
Thu, 03-31-2011 - 9:42pm

I'm sorry you're having problems.

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Registered: 03-14-2011
In reply to: chapel37
Mon, 03-28-2011 - 10:46pm

Sorry to hear your troubles with your DH. I can identify my DH had a lot of misconceptions about what the meds would do so much so the meds sat on the counter for 7 months until I had to say to him this is the "I" word we are dealing with, it is not happening and sometimes things need a little help. Also my

Me 37, DH 40 m/c Dec 2005 m/c Nov. 2007 TTC first child since July 2009 Clomid - two rounds started March 100mg
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Registered: 04-12-2010
In reply to: chapel37
Sun, 03-27-2011 - 6:34pm

I am sorry you and your DH have been fighting, I can completely understand. Before the whole IF struggle happened my DH and I were active in the bed room (sorry if this is TMI). Now we both find it so ordered and unpleasant. We were supposed to have it the 2 days following our IUI but this time the second day we simply could not muster it. We felt it was so forced. That is how I have been feeling this whole journey. My sex drive has just dissapeared.

Perhaps you can sit down and have an honest discussion with your DH and find out exactly how he feels. Perhaps he is just nervous he will not be able to perform on cue and so he will mask it behind something else.

Either way my heart goes out to you and I send you many hugs. This is a terrible journey to be on and is certainly not easy.

Dixie

"Even miracles take a little time." ~ Fairy Godmother: Cinderella

TTC since April 2009