Good-bye

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Registered: 09-11-2008
Good-bye
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Sat, 08-22-2009 - 12:47am

After much thought, DH and I have decided to stop TTC. I cannot get pregnant on my own and after all the financial problems since DH got laid off, we cannot afford to do any IF procedures. We are far too in debt. I love you all so much and cannot even begin to tell you all how much I appreciate all the support you have given me. This has been such a hard decision for me, but I can't keep going when there will be no reward. I do plan on popping in every now and then to check up on you all. Sending tons of baby dust to you all.

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Registered: 07-30-2009
In reply to: purpleflower04
Sat, 08-22-2009 - 8:01am

Suzi,

I am so sad to see this:(

I'll miss you and your fun stories about your kitties. I hope that your dreams of being a mother again do come true for you once things start getting better. Darn this crazy economy.

Keep in touch if you have a chance to pop in and let us know how you are doing!

 

Kelly

I'm 38, DH is 42 and we are TTC #1. We've had 3 unexplained miscarriages and a bout with Asherman's Syndrome but we're determined.

BFP #4! - 1/
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Registered: 02-04-2008
In reply to: purpleflower04
Sat, 08-22-2009 - 12:30pm

Suzi,

I am so sorry you're in this position and had to make this decision. I know it sounds cliche, but maybe this is happening for a reason- the timing is just not right and eventually when you have your child you'll understand why things happened the way they did. I hope things turn around for you guys soon. IF is so unfair, especially when money is what is holding you back. But in a way, if you got PG right now the financial strain would be even worse. I hope DH can find a job soon and you guys are back on your feet. HUGS and take care...

 


Amber



Mason James was born 8/21/10, 8lbs 12 oz after close to 3 years of infertility.
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Registered: 02-11-2008
In reply to: purpleflower04
Sat, 08-22-2009 - 2:38pm
I'm sorry you have to make this decision, Suzi.

Isabel
Mom to Sebastian Robert after 3+ years of infertility

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Registered: 06-28-2008
In reply to: purpleflower04
Sat, 08-22-2009 - 4:23pm
Suzi, I am so sorry you and your DH had to make such a hard decision.
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Registered: 06-22-2008
In reply to: purpleflower04
Sat, 08-22-2009 - 5:24pm

Suzi,


I know this was a very difficult decision for you and DH to make. I wish you the best and please know that we'll miss you.


Erin & Ryan Sig
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Registered: 07-29-2008
In reply to: purpleflower04
Sat, 08-22-2009 - 6:09pm

Suzi-


I'm so sorry to read this update. I wish you all the best and hope you get pregnant naturally and have the blessing you deserve. Hang in there and I hope your debt starts going down and things improve. You are such a sweet caring person and you deserve the best.


Thinking of you!!!


Kitty

Me-30, DH newly 34, diagnosed with PCOS in Nov/Dec 2008. 3 Failed cycles of Clomid. (50mg, 100mg, 150mg) Started working with RE Nov 26. Asked for & started M

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In reply to: purpleflower04
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 5:40am
((HUGS)) I am so sorry you had to make this decision
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Registered: 10-31-2008
In reply to: purpleflower04
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 9:54am

Suzi,


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Registered: 12-15-2008
In reply to: purpleflower04
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 10:45am
I am just so sorry to see this message and that you and your DH had to make such a difficult decision.

Melissa


About me ~ Me - 31, DH- 31, DH and I have been together since April 1

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Registered: 01-23-2006
In reply to: purpleflower04
Mon, 08-24-2009 - 8:58am

Suzi,


I am also very sad to hear that you had to make such a difficult decision.


We will miss you on this board.


I hope things turn around very soon for you guys.


Good luck:)


Nat

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