GRRRRR!!! Really?!?!

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GRRRRR!!! Really?!?!
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Wed, 06-17-2009 - 4:48pm

So, I just found out today that my 18 year old cousin who just finished high school "accidentally" got his 18 year old girlfriend pregnant. That makes me feel FANTASTIC! Why is it that every irresponsible little teenager on the planet can get pregnant?!? I am so irritated. Life just isn't fair.

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Me- 31, DH- 31; TTC #1 since Nov. '07; No known FI issues; DH has borderline/low motility
IUI #1 on Apr. 25--BFN; IUI #2 on May 22-- BFN
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Wed, 06-17-2009 - 5:14pm

Stephany


This also irritates me!

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Faith (35) Matt (40)

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Wed, 06-17-2009 - 5:37pm

Faith,
You are so right. They are definitely not mature or responsible enough for this. To be honest, I've never even met the girl and my cousin lives around the corner from me. I don't think they've been together very long. It is so frustrating and unfair. My uncle doesn't know what to do. He is a single father of four boys, one of which is still in middle school. OF course, maybe he should have talked to him more about birth control before it happened! This is my third young cousin that has gotten pregnant or gotten someone else pregnant since we have been TTC (I have over 30 first cousins... apparently everyone else in my family breeds like rabbits.) And here we are with our college educations, our own homes, and good jobs, but that doesn't seem to matter. It is so frustrating!!!

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Me- 31, DH- 31; TTC #1 since Nov. '07; No known FI issues; DH has borderline/low motility
IUI #1 on Apr. 25--BFN; IUI #2 on May 22-- BFN
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Wed, 06-17-2009 - 6:12pm
Oh Stephany, I'm so sorry!


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Wed, 06-17-2009 - 9:21pm
I'm sorry.

Isabel
Mom to Sebastian Robert after 3+ years of infertility

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Thu, 06-18-2009 - 9:18am

Stephany,


Girl vent away I sooo feel your fustration and it PISSES ME OFF!!!!!!!!!!! I also just don't understand here we are trying to do the best so we can have a good enviroment, good education, jobs, marriage and so forth and we CAN'T GET PG, we go through all thes meds, EARLY doc appt, get sh*t sticked inside us, stabbing ourselves with needles, insering sh*t into our vajaja's, timed BD, OMG the lest can go on and our hormones and emotions are EVERYWHERE!!!!! And here are these "ACCIDENTS" and they don't need to do nothing but we try to support them go or even throw the babyshowers and then 3-6 months after they are born and the attention dims down they want to go back to there before lives and leave the baby/ies EVERYWHERE and the child gets the neglect and our hearts pour out with pain because that could have been our child...UUUGGGHHHHH!!!!!


So let me tell ya why I am sooooooo not in good spirits my CIL (cousin in law) found out last yr that we were going through fertility well "were" close she's one of those ppl who cry wolf EVERYDAY so I just tried to help her on the right path (oh did i mention she is a WH*RE) well she just meet this dude at the time and decided to get off depo so when she told me I was so so with that well she got PG in her 4th month of being off it and had to call me at work and tell me HER good news my heart sank because I have been trying for over 5yrs and poof she's pg R U F'ING SERIOUS...Well i womaned up and supported her the whole time even through the baby shower with her sisters and WAS going to be the godmother but refused because i knew in my heart i just coudn't (I have 5 neices and nephews from my sister and my whole focus is on them because she is not in there life )(long story) so I knew if I had accepted I would be like her baby daddy because she's that type of person well anyways when the baby was born she didn't know who the baby daddy was but once we saw her we knew and thank od it was the guy she was dating and not any of her creeps she be sleeping with....ok soooooo the other day I was over her house and she asked if i was still trying OF COURSE and the b**ch had the nerve to tell me "OH HER DOC TOLD HER SHE SHOULD GET OFF DEPO AGAIN CAUSE IT'S MESSING WITH HER BODY" all of a sudden and she also told me she is having pg symptoms and already could be PG..............................UUUGGGGGHHHHHH why her she don't work she always crying for others ppl's money and attention and I'M SOOO PISSSED.........well i havent called to get the update because if she is i don't know what I am goign to do....Ok vent is OUT!!!!


Stephany we just need to go on VACATION.......lol


HUGS,


Michelle

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Thu, 06-18-2009 - 10:04am
URGH! I hate hearing that.

Kelly


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Thu, 06-18-2009 - 10:10am
You have got to be kidding me.

Lauren


TTC #1.

After struggling with infertility, we welcomed our son Noah on March 18, 2010! Formerly a teacher, I am now a breastfeeding, babywearing, stay at home Mom, and I couldn't love it any more!
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Thu, 06-18-2009 - 10:40am

It is difficult when the thing that

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Fri, 06-19-2009 - 3:58pm
Oh Steph!

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