I'm having a sad moment

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I'm having a sad moment
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Wed, 03-02-2011 - 10:02pm

Im having a sad moment. I cannot pin point it on anything but I am on the verge of tears. I guess I just feel hopeless. I do not want to tell my DH because bless his heart he always wants to fix things. He does not understand that sometimes I just need to cry. But I knew you ladies would understand.

Tomorrow is another day - hopefully a better one.

Dixie

"Even miracles take a little time." ~ Fairy Godmother: Cinderella

TTC since April 2009

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Wed, 03-02-2011 - 10:19pm
yep. we've all been there. I'm so sorry you're feeling sad. -Pix

About me: A pixie in the city, 41, TTC#1 since May 2010, married 18 years.


Diagnosed with/surgically removed endometrioma Aug 2010. Sept IUI #1=BFN. Nov IUI #2=BFN. Uterine polyp removed Jan. 2011. Jan 2011 IVF cancelled. No response. 2nd

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Thu, 03-03-2011 - 7:52am

I'm so sorry that you are going through a rough time!!!

Robin

Mom to 2-year old twin boys, Dawson & Devin

TTC #3

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Thu, 03-03-2011 - 8:25am
Sorry you're having one of those days. I had one myself yesterday. I think we all do and it's a normal part of this crazy disease called infertility. You always have us to vent to no matter what....(((HUGS)))

Jemma (35) and DH, (37). Married October 13, 2007 and TTCing since April 2008. Dealing with PCOS, swollen tubes, and also MFI. Committing myself to getting healthy and losing weight in preparation for IVF later in 2012.

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Thu, 03-03-2011 - 8:34am

Thanks everyone. I am a bit better today. Looking forward to planning a last minute trip cause I am tired of the cold and I am tired of waiting to get what I want (i.e. a family). I figure I have control over vacations so lets do it!

Dixie

"Even miracles take a little time." ~ Fairy Godmother: Cinderella

TTC since April 2009

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Thu, 03-03-2011 - 12:08pm

I'm so sorry, Dixie! The only thing that seems to make me feel better when I'm having a sad day is to know that tomorrow will be better!

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Thu, 03-03-2011 - 12:38pm

I'm sorry you were having a sad moment, Dixie. I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes it just hits and I'm tired or the treatments and I'm tired of the blood tests and I'm tired of the worry and all I want it a baby. I'm glad you are feeling better today.

-Jamie

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Thu, 03-03-2011 - 12:41pm
I know how you feel, this journey is so hard sometimes and we are only human. Cry if you need to, I hope feel better soon. Sending prayers and positive thoughts your way.

Amanda

Me - (Amanda 27) My dh-- 26 We have been ttc # 1 for 3yrs 5mths My dh has severe oligospermia, Ivf with icsi is our only option. Ivf # 1--- failed Ivf # 2--- failed Ivf # 3-- hopefully in March 2013 at a new clinic!

 

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Thu, 03-03-2011 - 3:31pm
((HUGS)) Dixie
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Thu, 03-03-2011 - 6:00pm

We all have so many sad moments along this journey.

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Thu, 03-03-2011 - 7:46pm
Dixie,

I am so sorry that you are feeling so sad and hopeless, but I am glad that you are feeling a little better now. Going away and getting away from the stress of IF definitely helps me, and I hope that this is able to take your mind off of IF at least for a little while.

Sending you BIG hugs and lots of positive thoughts!

Kelly
Kelly (31) DH (32) TTC Since June 2009 August 2007 - Myomectomy - removed large fibroid on back of uterus January 2010 - HSG reveals "possible" blocked left tube March 2010 - First RE visit (PCOS secondary to CAH diagnosed) April 2010 - October 2010