Is it just me...

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Registered: 10-28-2009
Is it just me...
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Fri, 12-11-2009 - 10:50am

Do you guys fantasize about getting a real BFP and getting to tell people? I've never had one and I feel it would be worse to have one and then miscarry, but I daydream about it all the time. I'm guessing we all do, but I think about how I will tell people and all the excitement...kind of ridiculous, huh? This is particularly a reoccurring theme during the 2ww!


 

-Jamie


Me 33, DH 36. TTC since November 2007. Possible miscarriage in January of 2008 (too early for BFP, but all symptoms point to miscarriage). Normal SA in Feb 2009. HSG showed large (50% of uterus) fundal fibroid in Feb 2009. Hysteroscopically removed in March 2009. Tried to concieve naturally until August. Repeat HSG was normal. Currently on 4th month of Clomid...never had a BFP.

-Jamie

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Registered: 10-28-2009
In reply to: jamieokc
Tue, 12-15-2009 - 9:36am
We just have a notebook we write them in but I'm kind of impressed with the spreadsheet!

-Jamie


Me 33, DH 36. TTC since November 2007. Possible miscarriage in January of 2008 (too early for BFP, but all symptoms point to miscarriage). Normal SA in Feb 2009. HSG showed large (50% of uterus) fundal fibroid in Feb 2009. Hysteroscopically removed in March 2009. Tried to concieve naturally until August. Repeat HSG was normal. Currently on 4th month of Clomid...never had a BFP. Will begin IUI in January.

-Jamie

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Registered: 02-11-2008
In reply to: jamieokc
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 11:07pm
Heck, I'll actually admit that I have a potential names spreadsheet.

Isabel
Mom to Sebastian Robert after 3+ years of infertility

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Registered: 11-07-2008
In reply to: jamieokc
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 4:06pm
That's definitely not ridiculous Jamie.


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Registered: 08-10-2007
In reply to: jamieokc
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 9:44pm

I used to daydream about it all the time when we were ttc.

Remembering o

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Registered: 07-18-2009
In reply to: jamieokc
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 2:06pm
What's really bad is when i go to babiesrus.com and start looking at what i would put on my registry.

Me (36) DH (38)- me-unexplained IF/hypothyroid -DH-counts good, but volume is low; Married in 2006, off birth control pill. Started officially trying in March of 2009.
2 rounds clomid/ovidrel 2009, 1 round femara/iui, 2010, 2 rounds follistim/iui 2010. Weight loss surgery 2011.  Back to new RE 2012: HSG normal, AMH 0.43= DOR; IVF with microdose flare protocol in February 2013.  

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Registered: 07-30-2009
In reply to: jamieokc
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 7:56am
Not ridiculous at all! I'm sure many of us fantasize about it. That and the birth and seeing the baby's room all decorated, it goes on and on.

 

Kelly

I'm 38, DH is 42 and we are TTC #1. We've had 3 unexplained miscarriages and a bout with Asherman's Syndrome but we're determined.

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Registered: 10-28-2009
In reply to: jamieokc
Fri, 12-11-2009 - 11:24am
Oh, me too! We have lists of names too...speaking of that would be a good post. Maybe I'll start one!

-Jamie


Me 33, DH 36. TTC since November 2007. Possible miscarriage in January of 2008 (too early for BFP, but all symptoms point to miscarriage). Normal SA in Feb 2009. HSG showed large (50% of uterus) fundal fibroid in Feb 2009. Hysteroscopically removed in March 2009. Tried to concieve naturally until August. Repeat HSG was normal. Currently on 4th month of Clomid...never had a BFP.

-Jamie

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Registered: 04-05-2009
In reply to: jamieokc
Fri, 12-11-2009 - 11:15am

Jamie, I've been dreaming about it for 14 years.

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