Just not fair

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Just not fair
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Wed, 02-23-2011 - 12:08pm

So just a few minutes ago, I was invited in to a co-worker's office to see her 5 week old grandson.

Jemma (35) and DH, (37). Married October 13, 2007 and TTCing since April 2008. Dealing with PCOS, swollen tubes, and also MFI. Committing myself to getting healthy and losing weight in preparation for IVF later in 2012.

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Wed, 02-23-2011 - 12:40pm

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Registered: 02-01-2011
Wed, 02-23-2011 - 12:58pm

I am so sorry! (((((Big, Big Hugs))))

DH-28 Me (Amanda)-28 TTC#1- 7 yearsToo many to count failed IUI's (Clomid, Injectables) IVF#1 (March 09) BFN IVF#2(Oct 09) BFN Changed clinic and RE IVF#3(Feb 11) BFP 4 + HPT Beat #1 3/15/11- 201 Beta #2 3/17/11- 539 Beta #3 3/24/11- 6933
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Registered: 09-29-2010
Wed, 02-23-2011 - 2:02pm

Ugh! That STINKS! In more ways than one. I was actually thinking recently about smoking and TTC. One of my male coworkers is a chain smoker and just had a baby, and it kills me that my younger, fitter, healthier, NON-SMOKING husband has sperm issues. Not fair!

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Registered: 06-05-2007
Wed, 02-23-2011 - 3:03pm
I know! It's just so messed up! I'm fine with smokers as long as I don't have to smell it or breathe it. But I can't stand smelling smoke on kids and babies!! If you smoke and have a child, you should at least do it outside and not in the car when the baby is in there.

Jemma (35) and DH, (37). Married October 13, 2007 and TTCing since April 2008. Dealing with PCOS, swollen tubes, and also MFI. Committing myself to getting healthy and losing weight in preparation for IVF later in 2012.

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Registered: 06-05-2007
Wed, 02-23-2011 - 3:07pm
Thanks for the support ladies. The smoking was bad enough, but when the girl handed off the baby to her mother because she was annoyed she had to burp him again, that sent me over the edge. I wanted to scream at the top of my lungs "GIVE ME THE BABY SINCE YOU ARE SO DAMN ANNOYED!!" Don't they realize that some people would give anything to have a baby to burp??

Sorry I'm just really salty right now!

Jemma (35) and DH, (37). Married October 13, 2007 and TTCing since April 2008. Dealing with PCOS, swollen tubes, and also MFI. Committing myself to getting healthy and losing weight in preparation for IVF later in 2012.

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Registered: 01-03-2010
Wed, 02-23-2011 - 3:40pm

Totally understandable.

~ Meron born 12-09-11 after 3 1/2 years of TTC, IUIs and IVF.
~ #2 on the way(!) and due 06-06-13.

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Registered: 04-12-2010
Wed, 02-23-2011 - 8:43pm

Ugh I hate that. Apparently my SIL was a completely witch with a "b" during her labor. She and the baby's father have apparently been awful but THEY get a baby.

Oh and ammc1982 I really love what your mother put in that card. That is very true and we often loose sight of that.

Dixie

"Even miracles take a little time." ~ Fairy Godmother: Cinderella

TTC since April 2009

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Registered: 02-23-2011
Thu, 02-24-2011 - 12:50pm

hia God how right you are!!