Kicked out

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Kicked out
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Wed, 04-14-2010 - 9:50am

I just got kicked out of the "shared risk IVF program" due to the results of my last IVF cycle.  They don't reveal the specific reason....just referred me to the doctor for the clinical results.  I can't believe this is happening.  I feel like they are kicking me when I am already down.  I miscarried and had a little hope that I would be doing another IVF cycle....and now they took that away from me.....sure I get 70% of my money back but I don't care about the money.  I want a baby.


I'm so frustrated I can't even think.


Monica


Me: 37, DH: 41


TTC for 5 years . 1 Ectopic PG at 8 weeks; 3 IVF’s – (two BFPs, both ended in m/c ; one BFN); 4 IUI’s – all BFN.  June 2010: IVF #4 - praying and more praying!


Me: 39, DH: 43


TTC for 5 years . 1 Ectopic PG at 8 wee

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Registered: 11-07-2008
In reply to: missmonicab
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 10:05am

Oh Monica, I can't believe that, how incredibly upsetting!


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Registered: 10-31-2008
In reply to: missmonicab
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 10:44am

OMG Monica, how devestated you must feel!

~Christine~


TTC since 6/2007. 
IVF #1 Jan 2009 - BFN
IVF# 2  April 2009 - BFN
IVF# 3 July

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Registered: 01-23-2006
In reply to: missmonicab
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 11:09am

Monica,


This is just wrong! They are kicking you when you are down.

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Registered: 07-30-2009
In reply to: missmonicab
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 12:21pm

What??? You have got to be kidding me! How can they do that, it is a contract they agreed upon. I'd be scouring the fine print to see if it says anywhere in there they can do that.

Jeez, I'm so sorry this is happening!

 

Kelly

I'm 38, DH is 42 and we are TTC #1. We've had 3 unexplained miscarriages and a bout with Asherman's Syndrome but we're determined.

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Registered: 08-20-2009
In reply to: missmonicab
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 12:22pm

I'm so sorry to hear this.

Lilypie Maternity tickers


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In reply to: missmonicab
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 8:11pm
I am so sorry, Monica!
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Registered: 03-07-2009
In reply to: missmonicab
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 8:28pm
That just plain sucks Monica. I'm sorry they kicked you out. I hope you find a better clinic and get things moving again. I wouldn't want to stay there even if they changed there mind now. How insensitive after what you've been through. I'm sure they have there reasons, but those if us with IF don't care what there are. Just take our money and give us our baby!!!! I h&p the transition is very smooth for you.

 Lori


 


DH and I are 33yrs old. TTC #1 since May08| July09- Dx POF|  Aug09- started Premarin, Metformin, and Lupron

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Registered: 06-01-2009
In reply to: missmonicab
Thu, 04-15-2010 - 9:49am

Thanks everyone -


I was in such a state of shock yesterday and then I became a blubbery mess.


Me: 39, DH: 43


TTC for 5 years . 1 Ectopic PG at 8 wee

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Registered: 11-07-2008
In reply to: missmonicab
Thu, 04-15-2010 - 10:14am

Monica,

I think it's good that you emailed them to at least help you to feel a bit better and maybe even give them a little something to think about that they are also dealing with an emotional impact, not just the financial impact for themselves. I understand that they are a business who look at certain stats to determine what is best for them financially, but it's a shame and it's a shame that they can do so without giving you a reason. Even knowing all of their stipulations going in, it doesn't take away the hurt and shock if this happens. I wish you didn't have to feel the extra stress and pressure of "paying as you go".

I'm hoping that you get your b/w back quickly and either everything is okay or there is a reason where something can be changed in the next plan to bring you a completely successful cycle with a healthy LO born.

Me (30), DH (30)


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Registered: 07-30-2009
In reply to: missmonicab
Thu, 04-15-2010 - 2:31pm

I am so glad you emailed them even if nothing comes out of it. Was the plan through Attain or something like that? I had mine through Attain but I had to cancel out of it anyway. I hope you get a reason at least from them, I think you are owed that.

So sorry!

 

Kelly

I'm 38, DH is 42 and we are TTC #1. We've had 3 unexplained miscarriages and a bout with Asherman's Syndrome but we're determined.

BFP #4! - 1/

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