Morons

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Morons
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Fri, 03-04-2011 - 10:23pm

So, I was on my local military wives board this morning and someone had posted about TTC for 4 months and nothing had happened etc...that in itself could be frustrating, but it got better.

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In reply to: emmyaz
Sat, 03-05-2011 - 9:01pm

I just stubbled on your post but I couldn't agree with you more.

DH and I have been TTC#1 for 7 years. We are on our 3rd IVF. And when ppl say "just relax" or :start looking into adoption" and you'll get pregnant for sure. No!!! Not for sure. You don't think I have tried EVERYTHING in the past 7 yrs. Last yr we did NOTHING to try and nothing. I just want to yell SHUT THE HELL UP. Not nice, I know.

DH-28 Me (Amanda)-28 TTC#1- 7 yearsToo many to count failed IUI's (Clomid, Injectables) IVF#1 (March 09) BFN IVF#2(Oct 09) BFN Changed clinic and RE IVF#3(Feb 11) BFP 4 + HPT Beat #1 3/15/11- 201 Beta #2 3/17/11- 539 Beta #3 3/24/11- 6933
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In reply to: emmyaz
Sun, 03-06-2011 - 10:45am
Arg, peole can be so frustrating! I can't tell you how many people have given us the "just relax" speech...this is a medical condition! Pretty sure people with cancer aren't told to just relax!

-Jamie

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Registered: 03-04-2004
In reply to: emmyaz
Sun, 03-06-2011 - 2:20pm
Jamie, you made an excellent point!
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In reply to: emmyaz
Mon, 03-07-2011 - 10:32am

Ugh I cannot STAND comments like that. Relaxing does not in fact make me ovulate. I was very relaxed last month but my tests proved my body was not doing anything. I could relax myself into a coma and I still would not ovulate.

Dixie

"Even miracles take a little time." ~ Fairy Godmother: Cinderella

TTC since April 2009

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In reply to: emmyaz
Tue, 07-19-2011 - 7:40pm

Shut the hell up is much nicer than what I want to say!